"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bassmastajazzyj

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whats going everyone i just had a question about something ive had trouble with... my problem isnt making friends I can do that pretty easily but when it comes to keeping them i either lose touch or i dont really hang out with them that much. A lot of this has come from being from parents who don't really have friends (out of choice weird right?). Any advice on keeping friends and making closer relationships? Most of this trouble is with guys too, most of my best friends are girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If I've learned anything from The Sims it's that" friendships are like plants and need to be watered" haha. Seriously though, you just need to check up on them and say what's up. It'll show that you're there for them. That's what friends are though right? Someone that's there for you?
 
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From what I've experienced, the only people who you can truly become friends with are those who you can connect to, anyone else will be just an acquaintance.
 
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lili19771 said:
From what I've experienced, the only people who you can truly become friends with are those who you can connect to, anyone else will be just an acquaintance.
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There is so much truth in this. I have so many acquaintances I can go down my local pub whenever and never have to sit alone.

But there are only 2 guys who I value their friendship and guess what.... They both ride motorcycles. And the only girl I've met since I got together with my current girlfriend and actually been interested in hanging out with... does airbrushing on bikes and lives them.

Bet you can't guess what our main common interest is :p
 
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Friendship is a very good relation between friends. Sometimes this relation is more powerful.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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