"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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whats going everyone i just had a question about something ive had trouble with... my problem isnt making friends I can do that pretty easily but when it comes to keeping them i either lose touch or i dont really hang out with them that much. A lot of this has come from being from parents who don't really have friends (out of choice weird right?). Any advice on keeping friends and making closer relationships? Most of this trouble is with guys too, most of my best friends are girls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If I've learned anything from The Sims it's that" friendships are like plants and need to be watered" haha. Seriously though, you just need to check up on them and say what's up. It'll show that you're there for them. That's what friends are though right? Someone that's there for you?
 
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From what I've experienced, the only people who you can truly become friends with are those who you can connect to, anyone else will be just an acquaintance.
 
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lili19771 said:
From what I've experienced, the only people who you can truly become friends with are those who you can connect to, anyone else will be just an acquaintance.
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There is so much truth in this. I have so many acquaintances I can go down my local pub whenever and never have to sit alone.

But there are only 2 guys who I value their friendship and guess what.... They both ride motorcycles. And the only girl I've met since I got together with my current girlfriend and actually been interested in hanging out with... does airbrushing on bikes and lives them.

Bet you can't guess what our main common interest is :p
 
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Friendship is a very good relation between friends. Sometimes this relation is more powerful.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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