"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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closed number on high school crush.

mattb717

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I ran into her tonight at a bar for the second time in a few months. Granted the first time I messed up bad. She offered her number and I never called. Since then I discovered Sosuave.com and tonight I took advantage. I chatted her up for maybe 5 minutes and asked for her number before I left. I got it and plan on making use of it in a couple of days. Question is, what next. I asked her to "join me" later in the week for drinks. Good idea or bad? Any extra suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Listen to your own intuition, nobody here will give you the magic words to say, just sit somewhere, close your eyes, calm your mind a bit, and I'm sure the person with the BEST advice for you will tell it to you, and that person is yourself
 

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Dude... she was a high school crush. This scenario is *always* bad. Ever seen the movie, "Just Friends?" You place her on a pedestal immediately. Be prepared to be friend zoned unless you can think of her just like any other girl. Otherwise, you'll place so much importance on her that she'll sh!t test you and push your boundaries all the way into the friend zone.
 

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You found sosuave, but have you studied it yet?

There's no way these guys are honestly asking questions like this with having read the Bible or at least attempting a boot camp.

Give me some help and LINK these questions to the Bible. It will save the poster and readers valuable time and brain cells.
 
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