"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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closed number on high school crush.

mattb717

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I ran into her tonight at a bar for the second time in a few months. Granted the first time I messed up bad. She offered her number and I never called. Since then I discovered Sosuave.com and tonight I took advantage. I chatted her up for maybe 5 minutes and asked for her number before I left. I got it and plan on making use of it in a couple of days. Question is, what next. I asked her to "join me" later in the week for drinks. Good idea or bad? Any extra suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Listen to your own intuition, nobody here will give you the magic words to say, just sit somewhere, close your eyes, calm your mind a bit, and I'm sure the person with the BEST advice for you will tell it to you, and that person is yourself
 

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Dude... she was a high school crush. This scenario is *always* bad. Ever seen the movie, "Just Friends?" You place her on a pedestal immediately. Be prepared to be friend zoned unless you can think of her just like any other girl. Otherwise, you'll place so much importance on her that she'll sh!t test you and push your boundaries all the way into the friend zone.
 

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You found sosuave, but have you studied it yet?

There's no way these guys are honestly asking questions like this with having read the Bible or at least attempting a boot camp.

Give me some help and LINK these questions to the Bible. It will save the poster and readers valuable time and brain cells.
 
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