"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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saber

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Over the past two months Ive started to learn the ways of the dj. On the subject of number closing. Ill get the number wait a few days and call them with no response, I leave message. Then about a week later I will get a random call from the girl.

Why would a girl wait to call me back? IMO she is interested if she is thinking about me a week later.

This isn't really that important of a factor, just curious about the motives.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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EFFORT

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Could be 1 of a million things. Maybe shes busy with work, maybe busy with friends, maybe busy with other guys, maybe busy with school, maybe shes doing family stuff, maybe shes unsure about spending the time towards adding a new guy in her a life, maybe her pet is sick, maybe she has a huge zit, maybe shes sick, maybe maybe maybe.....so don't worry about it you'll never know.
 
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