"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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saber

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Over the past two months Ive started to learn the ways of the dj. On the subject of number closing. Ill get the number wait a few days and call them with no response, I leave message. Then about a week later I will get a random call from the girl.

Why would a girl wait to call me back? IMO she is interested if she is thinking about me a week later.

This isn't really that important of a factor, just curious about the motives.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EFFORT

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Could be 1 of a million things. Maybe shes busy with work, maybe busy with friends, maybe busy with other guys, maybe busy with school, maybe shes doing family stuff, maybe shes unsure about spending the time towards adding a new guy in her a life, maybe her pet is sick, maybe she has a huge zit, maybe shes sick, maybe maybe maybe.....so don't worry about it you'll never know.
 
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