"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Clocked my woman lying

bunjy

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Ok ok so heres the thing. My woman was working lastnite (when England got knocked out of the European Championships :( ) and i told her that i would txt her the score as it happens, as i was in the pub gettin wrecked. Anyway after a few mins we scored and after a couple of mins of celebrations and buzzing I got a txt off her telling me how crap i am cos she knows we scored even though she hasnt got the radio on. Anyway i ask her today how the hell she found out we scored so quickly and she tells me she had the radio on.

Its not a big issue or nothing but i mentioned to her the fact that ive busted her for trying to blag me, she denies it saying that she didnt txt me that (I deleted the message). Im not really bothered that much by this although it does seem a bit manipulative.

Should I let this slip or should i make a point of letting her know im onto her?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dirtheart

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I don't watch football but I knew exactly when England scored because I could hear distant cheers.

By all means, if she's deceiving you over something that upsets you, take it up with her, but over something like this be very careful you don't make yourself look like the insecure, controlling and obsessive boyfriend.
 

maranathaman

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I'd wager she was....

She was shagging some other bloke,
and he had the tele-on in the background with the game-on!
 

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Re: I'd wager she was....

Originally posted by maranathaman
She was shagging some other bloke,
and he had the tele-on in the background with the game-on!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sisko

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No I think this girl is from a pararell universe !!!

Scary stuff really :eek: :p
 

diablo

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My god, bunjy! You need to drop this player right away! It's insane that a girl would lie so scandalously to her boyfriend... if any girl of mine told me that she wasn't listening to the radio when she really was (or vice versa) I would shoot her! You putting up with her listening to the game, or finding out from a friend who called or however she came to know the score, only shows how small you are! Get rid of her, for she's definitely up to no good!


If you can't hear the sarcasm dripping from those words, read them again. Seriously, though, bunjy's initial post is so AFC that it makes me want to gag.
 

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something about the title of your post that doesnt go with the situation, im thinking you punched your woman because she lied? must be the british talk.
 

bunjy

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Anyway I didnt bother confronting her about it, no big deal like. I like to think as myself as not an AFC, im certainly no DJ though.

I have my game and it works and at the end of the day im not really bothered what happens.

Am I AFC or what?

Clocked : caught
 
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