"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Clip Clop - The "Cowboy" Boot Issue

Double_Diamonds

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Well guys this is just a question for you about style. I wear black cowboy boots (western bootS). They look good in my opinion for dressing up, and I wear dress pants all the time. I hear bad things about the boots, that people don't like them....especially women. Hell, they even had a thing on the radio about the top 10 most unnatractive foot wear to women (don't ask me), guess what was #1?

I know it seems that if they're out of style (or never were in it) I should ditch them. The kicker is that it's something I'm known for. I also like how dressy they are. A cowboy is definetly not a bad thing to be, but is a bad dresser a bad thing? Obviously.

I like being known for cowboy boots....but I don't wanna be known for horrible style. What do you guys?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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um. Is Minnesota known for it's cowboys and frontier?

If not, it might seem weird and out of place. In Texas, of course you think 'cowboys' when you think Texas, so people doing it there makes sense.
 

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Im about to get cowboy boots, cause I cant wear timbs all the time and I dont like leather dress boots cause you cant really get them dirty...Dont get the kind with all the designs on them and sh1t, get the plain kind...Ive seen people pull it off before, all you gotta do is pull your jeans over them and most people cant even tell, and Ive seen some that are more for fashion purpose then an actual cowboy boot...
 

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go up to some women that are like the type you want to attract, and ask their opinion... simple
 

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Please, if you aren't a cowboy or live on a ranch, just dont wear them. There are way too many cowboy wannabes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cowboy boots are an American classic. They're as iconic as leather jackets and aviator sunglasses. I'm about to invest in a pair of brown ones myself. Any suggestions on which brand and where to buy?
 

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Originally posted by TheSplat
Cowboy boots are an American classic. They're as iconic as leather jackets and aviator sunglasses. I'm about to invest in a pair of brown ones myself. Any suggestions on which brand and where to buy?
I'd say theyre iconic of the American south.

I go to college in Michigan, and there's this TV ad for a car dealership with the owner and family in cowboy hat and boots and lasso and horses, and it look incredibly stupid. Cowboys in Michigan? Gimme a break. :rolleyes:
 
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