She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
Like I was saying, if for some reason your mind changes, you were either doing WAY too much and depleting all your hormone levels (any moron can figure out that secretion means depletion if you do it too much, so why the fu-ck do you need science to prove it?!), or you have some pyschological problem associated with masturbation that you shouldn't have. It really is all in your mind, to a point... like I said, if you do it ALL the time, you face the possibility of actually causing some pyschological side-effects due to how you altered your body's chemistry. Too much of ANYTHING is bad for you, so once again I ask you why do you need science to prove it? About the pent up sexual energy, well... I actually have a stronger sex drive a day or two after doing it than I would if I abstained from it completely. The body, as far as I have read from other sources, increases the production of certain hormones when you are sexually active. As to the original poster, well, he clearly already made his mind up and was adamant about not masturbating, so all he wants is for us to tell him reasons NOT to masturbate, which, needless to say, is stupid.
So you realize you aren't going to get any more by your left hand and you better get your ass in gear to find a girl to do it. You wouldn't be as driven to find a girl to have sex with if you wanked every hour, would you?Originally posted by eLMac
Hmm....
I wonder why Gunwitch recommends it then?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Alright, I believed your actionlove.com, but I'm cutting the line. I've been to herbolove.com, and I know you're in BS land now. All this guy is doing is pushing his damn fake product to rip you off. It's all BS. If you want real information go to:Originally posted by Stormbringer
I also recommend another site, www.herbolove.com ...Dr. Lin contributes to that site, as well, although it's run by a group of doctors.
NOW TO EXPOSE STORM FOR A FRAUDAs long as you can still function in the world, at school, on your job, with family and friends, there's nothing wrong with your frequency of masturbation. The red flag is masturbating instead of taking care of life's business that needs tending.
These types of concerns often are mentioned after some folks read certain web sites that are trying to worry their readers with very natural symptoms. They then try to sell a product to cure these very natural symptoms. I love the Internet, but I sure do feel frustrated when bogus ideas are spread to prey on someone's lack of information.
The thing that I mind the most about these bogus web sites is that they sometimes manage to create a problem with their misinformation. If you know that you have masturbated, then you might be susceptible to getting erection problems simply because the site says you will. It's the power of suggestion and what's called a self-fulfilling prophecy.