Clingy? Outside opinions encouraged...

[Sofomore]

I have been consistently hooking up with my neighbor (we're both 19). Meaning about twice a week we end up in bed together. Other than meeting up for sex we dont really hang out much. I try to keep space by not contacting until I want to meet up. We arent together, just basically f-buddies.

About 2 weeks ago we went out together to a dance party. At this dance party we only danced with eachother. No serious PDA, just some fun dancing. Now Ive realized that at the last 2 parties we have only hung out together. We both enjoy our time together, but dont seem to "Search the field" when together.

Is this my fault in being too clingy?

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

I have been consistently hooking up with my neighbor (we're both 19). Meaning about twice a week we end up in bed together. Other than meeting up for sex we dont really hang out much. I try to keep space by not contacting until I want to meet up. We arent together, just basically f-buddies.

About 2 weeks ago we went out together to a dance party. At this dance party we only danced with eachother. No serious PDA, just some fun dancing. Now Ive realized that at the last 2 parties we have only hung out together. We both enjoy our time together, but dont seem to "Search the field" when together.

Is this my fault in being too clingy?

If you mean by "basically f-buddies" you mean "i want her just to be my f-buddy and nothing else" you need to stop going together places and only being with each other.

No matter what she says (from the limited information you gave) she's already viewing you as future boyfriend and in a few months she's going to get pissed if you start doing things on your own and being with other girls instead of her when she's present.

So, unless you want her as a girlfriend you'd better limit your activities together to only visiting her for booty calls.

It's ok to dance with her sometimes so you aren't being a **** but ALWAYS dance with at least 2 other girls on those occasions.