"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Clingy Nonstop texting HS girls

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Been awhile since I've brought something to the HS forum. I recently met a High School girl through a wrong number, but she kept talking unconvinced I wasn't the guy she was looking for, we eventually traded facebook info and have been chatting for a week. I'm a Senior in College. Not really interested in such a young girl, but she is pretty cute and will be 18 in about 6 months.

Problem is she is so clingy, calls, texts nonstop even when I ignore her for a couple days she is back at it. I have nothing to talk to this girl about. Is this a common thing with High School girls these days? What the hell do you talk about with them?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Might not have to worry about it. I just pissed her off when I told her Spongebob has to be the stupidest show ever. I'm so glad I'm not in HS. How the Fvck does a HS senior sit around watching Spongebob?

In the past week I've gone out with a woman my own age and one that was 2 years older. And So far the best conversation and time spent has been with the older girl.
 

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Yeah it's pretty common actually, means she wants your d!ck ;)

I realize your situation is a bit sticky because of the fact she's not yet 18. Sooo you need to wait about 6 months before making a move. Probably, not really sure what your style is lol.

Normally, these situations are best handled by pushing for a meet-up early on. Let's say she starts texting you asking what you're doing, how your day is going, etc. You can be very brief in your replies, and even wait hours or a day to respond back. But then she starts asking deeper questions. Then what? What you have to do is ask her to meet up with you. She asks you what your hobbies are, tell her "I love playing pool. I'm free Thursday, let's go play." That way you get her in person. If she gives excuses multiple times, no point in talking to her anyway.

That said, you clearly would have to wait. In your situation you don't really have much of a choice except but to be vague with your replies, don't reply in a timely fashion, and conveniently "forget" to reply every now and again.
 

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I typically wait an hour or so between responses. She is already pushing to meet which I blew her off/got out of it for few days because I went to the lake. Last night I had a 15 year old I tutor coming on to me! Which is way to young! :eek:

I've got friends who bang 17 year olds all the time, but just sounds too risky to me even if statutory doesn't apply I can just imagine an accidental pregnancy or her parents finding out and then it turns into a rape charge.

I'll probably just completely ignore her. I've got my hands full right now
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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