"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Clingy Nonstop texting HS girls

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Been awhile since I've brought something to the HS forum. I recently met a High School girl through a wrong number, but she kept talking unconvinced I wasn't the guy she was looking for, we eventually traded facebook info and have been chatting for a week. I'm a Senior in College. Not really interested in such a young girl, but she is pretty cute and will be 18 in about 6 months.

Problem is she is so clingy, calls, texts nonstop even when I ignore her for a couple days she is back at it. I have nothing to talk to this girl about. Is this a common thing with High School girls these days? What the hell do you talk about with them?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Might not have to worry about it. I just pissed her off when I told her Spongebob has to be the stupidest show ever. I'm so glad I'm not in HS. How the Fvck does a HS senior sit around watching Spongebob?

In the past week I've gone out with a woman my own age and one that was 2 years older. And So far the best conversation and time spent has been with the older girl.
 

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Yeah it's pretty common actually, means she wants your d!ck ;)

I realize your situation is a bit sticky because of the fact she's not yet 18. Sooo you need to wait about 6 months before making a move. Probably, not really sure what your style is lol.

Normally, these situations are best handled by pushing for a meet-up early on. Let's say she starts texting you asking what you're doing, how your day is going, etc. You can be very brief in your replies, and even wait hours or a day to respond back. But then she starts asking deeper questions. Then what? What you have to do is ask her to meet up with you. She asks you what your hobbies are, tell her "I love playing pool. I'm free Thursday, let's go play." That way you get her in person. If she gives excuses multiple times, no point in talking to her anyway.

That said, you clearly would have to wait. In your situation you don't really have much of a choice except but to be vague with your replies, don't reply in a timely fashion, and conveniently "forget" to reply every now and again.
 

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I typically wait an hour or so between responses. She is already pushing to meet which I blew her off/got out of it for few days because I went to the lake. Last night I had a 15 year old I tutor coming on to me! Which is way to young! :eek:

I've got friends who bang 17 year olds all the time, but just sounds too risky to me even if statutory doesn't apply I can just imagine an accidental pregnancy or her parents finding out and then it turns into a rape charge.

I'll probably just completely ignore her. I've got my hands full right now
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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