Clingy as hell

[tafakna]

Told him it wasnt working, and he went silent, then i tried explaining why it wasnt working and he started crying.

You did well. Just hope you made sure it was his actions that were the cause.

The 'I need space' does more harm than good... it's better to state the truth 'you're too emotionally dependent, you're too clingy'...

I just think that now you need to give him a break for good. Calling to check on him will be worse for the guy, as it will keep his hopes up.

 

[HalfAddict]

Negative Cinamon, In fact I am quite the opposite, I tend to ignore girls I see TOO much thus causing problems.

I just don't think you opinion is needed here frankly, and you most likely do more harm than good.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

Just out of curiosity...what makes everyone think that a chick posting on an Internet forum for men is more likely than a man pretending to be a chick on the Internet?

Is there any evidence at all to make you believe this highly unlikely possibility?

 

[Proselytiser]

^ It only matters what we see. And what we see is boring

 

[Cinamon]

LOL! I actually didn't expect that... really. Are you sure this guy is a male? Does he have a pen1s and balls?

Sorry it didn't work out as planned.

Now come on please tell me that you are not attracted to him anymore. I wish I could make this many extreme AFC mistakes and still have a girl interested in me...

lol, I still think he is a fine piece of eye candy. He is so good too look at, but there is no way in hell I would go back to him.

I havent been in contact with him since, and I dont feel like i am missing him or anything, mind you, its only been a couple of days.

I like it on this forum, so i dont plan to leave anytime soon, unless i get kicked off. I tell you what, to the person that thinks I am a guy, a few people on here have seen my pics, so I am happy to hold a banner saying "soSuave Rules" and send it to them. You can then get them to confirm I am in fact a woman.

 

[seano99]

there is another photo that could confirm you are a woman. haha

 

[Joe Stud]

To all fellow DJ"s: I can vouch for Cinamon. She is a young, gooood looking lady, and crazy as hell. Definitely fun, a liver of life. Very remarkable chick. She is also very smart, professionsl at her job, very family oriented, and fiercely loyal to her friends.

I don't blame you for being suspicious... but I am here to tell you, she is all woman. Give her a chance... she's cool, and you will like her.

 

[Schwank]

So, we went out last night, had the dreaded discussion. Told him it wasnt working, and he went silent, then i tried explaining why it wasnt working and he started crying. I tried consoling him, but then i felt he just werent handling it very well, and i felt myself questioning my judgement and whether i made the right decision. I knew that if i stayed there any longer, i would feel guilty and get drawn in again so i excused myself, said he needed to be alone and that i would explain it to him over the phone when he was up for it. I know i didnt handle this well, but i didnt know what else to do, having found myself in that situation.

I tried phoning him again to see if he was ok, and he answered, said hello and went silent again. He texted me later asking if i had met someone else who i liked and whether that was the reason. I feel like a ***** for doing this, but he needed to know why it werent working out, cause i dont want him to make the same mistake with the next person. I feel liberated, having not heard from him since then.

Cinamon, this is a great f*cking thread, reminds me of when I was in my late-teens early twenties and desperate for female companionship. I look back on my early courtship and relationship years and cringe... I was such a chump: phoning girls all hours, always available, too eager to please, constantly praising girls, and so on. It amazes me that there are still so many guys that haven't gotten it through their thick heads that this type of wimpy sh*t will lead to, at best, being treated like doormats, or at worst, being slapped with a restraining order.

I grew up with an older sister, and she had (and still has) all these p*ssy-whipped dudes giving her cash, giving her compliments every day, giving her a shoulder to cry on... but not giving her any d*ck. And why? Because she's disgusted by such effimate behaviour. But they just don't seem to learn, as if continually giving her cash will lead to her pu... nevermind; this is my sister I'm writing about.

I think that you, as a female, writing this stuff is great; it reinforces the message to all these chumps that such behaviour is vehemently detested by women.

 

[zekko]

Do you notice that Cinamon keeps posting these threads where she hooks up with AFCs? True, she eventually ends up dumping them for their AFC-ness, but not before she's fvcked them first. So what can we learn from this?

Fast forward ahead to the year 2050. Everyone and their brother reads the internet, and all men try to act like the bad boy to attract women. People putting out PUA materials start to advertise: "Take this course and learn the attractive qualities of the AFC to get women!"

I'm thinking there must be some qualities of the AFC that women find attractive, because they keep going out with them. And if you believe Joe Stud, then Cinamon is a goooood looking chick. Someone awhile back posted a link to a page that advised that you combine the most attractive traits of the nice guy with the most attractive traits of the jerk and you would end up as a complete man.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I'm thinking there must be some qualities of the AFC that women find attractive, because they keep going out with them.

Why not? Free dinner, a decently nice time because the AFC is on the best behavior and less AFC, a good fvck and then goodbye. On to the next chump willing to do a dance and entertain.

 

[zekko]

Why not? Free dinner, a decently nice time because the AFC is on the best behavior and less AFC, a good fvck and then goodbye. On to the next chump willing to do a dance and entertain.

Not to mention AFCs are likely a big ego boost, always ready with the compliments and whatnot. From what I read, once they mature a bit, women usually marry "the nice guy" as well. They must see something in the AFC aside from being a chump.