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Cleaning out the notes in my computer, found some tips

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If you love her more than she loves you, then she has the power.

Women are turned off by anxiety in men.

Believing in an outside authority lowers your anxiety, but it divorces you from your own self-interest and turns you into a proverbial sheep.

Girls must want to have sex with a man, otherwise it is emotionally taxing on them.

Sex comes easier when you are happy.

Women are typically externally motivated while young, then internally motivated once they realize that they are 'rich'
 

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But now I ask: Where is Love in either's desire to control and exercise power over the other?
I was thinking in terms of supplication.

Here's another I found:

Expressing oneself as a weak and arrogant man (unearned confidence) is a way to gaslight women, in a sense.
 

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These notes are useless just sitting on my computer so I'll share them here. These are based on my observations and thoughts






psychopaths are most likely to survive war with their mental faculties intact. While war may dull the conscience, it will not eliminate it from those people who are not psychopaths.


Look at people as children, not in a condescending way, but excuse the faults of others without getting angry


Being who you are and overcome weakness is the coolest you can be.


You must visualize in your future and believe in it.


Times were good when anxiety was low.


If you did not have free will, then you would not get tired from focusing.


Thinking in essentials is the programming the subconscious mind so that the perfect mind can be automatized. This forms a context, a frame of the perfect mind.


An institution must be both successful and enforced, to be strong.


Being an honest sales man is a key personality trait in being independent. Dishonest sales people are dependent on others.


If you must be motivated, either by fear or incentive, you are doing the wrong job.


For those who depend on globalism, whether for economic, or security reasons, the new disorder is like an extinction event.


For those dependent on modern liberalism (Marxism), whether to justify the demoralization, or depending on societies “understanding” criminals, for the re-moralization of American is a death sentence for them.


In expressing oneself, remember:


To debate to destroy the person.


be prepared to give specifics. Don't always defend generalized statements.


utilize "not an argument"


Facts don't care about feelings.


You don’t have to oppose to create change. Strive for the change and continuing with your goals, while accepting others. It’s like social ju jitsu.


if someone accuses you of being an amateur by associated you to have weak knowledge, then do the same to the person in a way that is clever and humorous.


“Destroy the soy”


“in some alternate universe this guy is getting laid”


The foundation of a meme is the truth


  • Mysticism is socially acceptable insanity
  • In art is the same problem. People are expressing themselves in such a way that protects their self-esteem.
  • There are whole industries dedicated to propping false self-esteems; it keeps humanity chained to this planet.
  • When people give advice, they are really projecting themselves. Same is true for politics
  • People who promote authority and collectivism instinctively know that they live off others.
  • psychologically ill people have false identities, and therefore false self-esteem.


Truth offends the weak


Many women become insecure when a man expresses himself independently, or expresses standards, or does not want older women. Why? That man represents resources they can’t get when they expected to. Women don’t respect the nice guy, but some women really don’t like a nice guy turning into a not so nice guy.


In anything politics, such as entertainment, the operative standard is not so much reality, but perception. Powerful institutions are the first movers in formulating those perceptions, and they have a vested interest in keeping people mystical.



Most people do not function well outside of slavery.


Just because you don’t give power to something does not mean you hate it. Think of this like children do it.


Independence is a requirement of masculinity


women are a reflection of permissiveness. Women behave the way they do when institutions give them as much resources.


stress and anxiety are a result of not achieving one’s values. In other words, the closer you are to acting who you are, the less stress.


‘toxic masculinity’ is about women being inconvenienced by men


sex is the physiological response to someone’s core convictions
 

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Sexual orientation a physiological response to one's core convictions.
 

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How to turn my life around by BELIEVING I can get laid with hotter chicks? I think I have confidence / anxiety issues
 

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How to turn my life around by BELIEVING I can get laid with hotter chicks? I think I have confidence / anxiety issues
That's a great point. If you don't believe in yourself it won't come to you. This is when you must work on yourself, find who you are, what makes you confident, what are your talents, build your physique, develop your wordplay.
If you have a real confidence issue I recommend starting a martial art and preferably one with a sporting element where you can practice in real-time against live opponents.
 

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How to turn my life around by BELIEVING I can get laid with hotter chicks? I think I have confidence / anxiety issues
Why would you believe that you can get laid with hotter chicks? Also, why would getting laid with hotter chicks turn your life around?
 

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Cleaning out my computer again.


A hyperbolic way of understanding the conformist/external authority cognition is that you can peer pressure them into believing that the sky is yellow. If the axiom is society, there is no objective reality.

expectations adjust as a result of observation. Personal experience is powerful in shaping convictions.

Trying to compensate for a certain age, means that aspect of yourself is fighting to survive. The stronger the conviction, the stronger the stimuli (trauma) + stronger the overall survival instinct.

Be careful not to rob the young woman of her experience of being young. Experiences are competitive. How does the experience you provide compete with another experience?

If you want exceptional results, you must put in exceptional effort.

To argue in favor of an ethics for the purpose of adhering to the whims of society is an ethics that begs for altruism and thus is counter to survival.

I think that people who view ethics as innate (societal perception) are those who perceive people’s emotional states, and use that as the axiom.

women judge people and things by an emotional gestalt evaluation. It’s fast and easy, but terrible for understanding abstractions (this is why women’s understanding of themselves is only good on the superficial level). Typically these evaluations are correct on the superficial level.

Knowledge is a possession, it is earned. That’s why companies and inventors have patents.

Does your psychology pass the logic test?

Scorn the followers

direct opposition is usually not the most effective.

At the top of the bs promoters are parasites, they need others to live off of. If a person deliberately creates followers, then he is an evil personal

There is no mind body dichotomy. Philosophy drives a person’s convictions, which drives a person’s emotional responses.

politics:
Poly = many
tics = blood suckers

For beta males, it is easier to think that they need to be transnational because they have learned not to respect themselves. (?)

Everyone is bluepilled unless they are honest. It is a matter of principle. You lie once to yourself and you have taken the blue pill.
 

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Effective idealists are realists.
 
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