"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Clean Shaven or Stubble

diplomatic_lies

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Being Asian its hard to grow a stubble. You get a tip of hair on your chin, and some on your lip, but otherwise its just the odd patches on your face. Still I do try and get a bit of a stubble, which helps since I look 5 years younger than my real age.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lebRambo

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haha, i'm an arab so 5 hours at the most after shaving i've got stubble. Kinda annoying, actually.
 

iHatePants

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clean shaven

but this is because of a wierd problem I have. If I let my stubble grow for 2 or 3 days my face breaks out in zits. So my face looks like a mess and I have to shave again.

I wash my face twice a day. So I don't understand this.
 
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