“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Classifications of AFC?

neobrood

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Cuz when you say "AFC", its kinda vague. So far, here's some types... And pls add if u think I missed out something. These categories dont necessarily fit 100% to some people... Sometimes, combinations apply...


The geeks = just too obsessed with computers, and games, and stuff like that. Too damn obsessed with them that they integrate them into their life. That they sometimes tend to imitate video game//anime characters... Extreme cases tend to talk about anime and games 90% of the time... as if their whole life revolves around that...


The "cool" = They got no problem talkin to other guys... they hang out, go to parties, in fashion with the latest music and clothes... but they just got problems with approaching chicks.


The haters = dont really associate with geeks... not considered "cool" either. They just hate many things about the world. They repel chicks cuz of that "aura" of hate (Um... used to be one of these people...) that they project. They project negative energy... In some cases, they get suicidal or violent. Mostly found alone.


The shy = for some reasons, they just shut their mouth. Too afraid to say something... They just say few words and smile... Sometimes alone, sometimes with 1 or 2 friends...


The outcasts = Not shy, not geeky, they dont have "hating the world" issues... but they just are not part of the group. They only hang out with fellow "outcasts"... Sometimes alone, Sometimes with few, sometimes with large groups... of outcasts...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The Hot AFC = Guys that are by woman's standards attractive or very attractive, and get by well on their looks despite their neediness and deep down insecurity.

The Baller = This guy will usually have a good job, or lots of money in general, but uses it more for bragging rights. He will lend out money as a means of controlling other people, and must have things set out to his advantage either monetarily or 'strategicaly'. This is all just a cover for an extremely insecure interior that is seemingly hidden to most, except those that truly know this person.

Just to show some of the grayer shades of AFCdom.
 

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The Mentally Retarded = Those who can not comprehend their own actions and would literally hump a strangers leg if they felt up to it.
 

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"Cuz when you say "AFC", its kinda vague"

Because this term applies to any person of any geek herd or cool doods that are chumps. There is no need to put them into categories because AFC is a category. You either are one or you arent, period.
 

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AFC=Average Frustrated Chump

The Player =A person who gets pu$$y but is very insecure and can't keep a woman past a couple dates. Usually uses lines and such to get the women.
 

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Originally posted by neobrood





The haters = dont really associate with geeks... not considered "cool" either. They just hate many things about the world. They repel chicks cuz of that "aura" of hate (Um... used to be one of these people...) that they project. They project negative energy... In some cases, they get suicidal or violent. Mostly found alone.
Reminds me of a Dave Chapelle eposide when he had the Player Hater's Ball. They were pimps who were the "best player haters in the world" and traveled back in to time just to hate on people. It was pretty funny.


Also I have one. the Physco AFC. The guy who when he gets a girl, scares her into not leaving by controling her mentally or even physcially. Probaby the most insecure one of the group.
 

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I'm a geek, but I'm not an AFC. Ok, so maybe I'm a little geeky, but so what? I also used to be an ourcast and shy at the same time. Those were dark days.
 

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^ ouch

What do you call a person who has no problem approaching girls but does things wrong (doesn't KC, #C, too friendly, buys gifts, etc)

I usually just call those ppl AFCs but since you are being specific here....
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The Bookworm: Knows all there is to know about women and seduction, from books and websites, including this one, but when he goes out into the real world, just can't put ANY of it into play.
Uugh... I feel hit by this one.

I can put SOME of it into play tho. The more "advanced" stuff such as picking up random strangers in bars//buses//malls... need more practice.

But I got no problem approachin chicks in parties or co-workers, or any other kind of social event.

I think its all bout confidence tho. Still building it up little by little... :)
 

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hmmmmmmm how to get out of that outcast group . . . I have some close friends, but I dont really have a 'group' I consider myself more of a lone wolf than outcast lol I have no problem approaching most girls and dont consider myself an afc, but I still need to work on social skills with guys.
 

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Re: what does AFC stand for?

Originally posted by methodman
what does AFC stand for
It's a buzz-acronym that makes people feel like they belong to the super-exclusive club of Don Juans and pick-up artists.

Use it a lot if you wanna look cool here. :p
 

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Originally posted by neobrood
Uugh... I feel hit by this one.
Really? That means you believe its true.

If you take a reaction to what someone else says, than the problem lies in yourself, and you need to fix how you feel.
 
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