"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Classifications of AFC?

neobrood

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Cuz when you say "AFC", its kinda vague. So far, here's some types... And pls add if u think I missed out something. These categories dont necessarily fit 100% to some people... Sometimes, combinations apply...


The geeks = just too obsessed with computers, and games, and stuff like that. Too damn obsessed with them that they integrate them into their life. That they sometimes tend to imitate video game//anime characters... Extreme cases tend to talk about anime and games 90% of the time... as if their whole life revolves around that...


The "cool" = They got no problem talkin to other guys... they hang out, go to parties, in fashion with the latest music and clothes... but they just got problems with approaching chicks.


The haters = dont really associate with geeks... not considered "cool" either. They just hate many things about the world. They repel chicks cuz of that "aura" of hate (Um... used to be one of these people...) that they project. They project negative energy... In some cases, they get suicidal or violent. Mostly found alone.


The shy = for some reasons, they just shut their mouth. Too afraid to say something... They just say few words and smile... Sometimes alone, sometimes with 1 or 2 friends...


The outcasts = Not shy, not geeky, they dont have "hating the world" issues... but they just are not part of the group. They only hang out with fellow "outcasts"... Sometimes alone, Sometimes with few, sometimes with large groups... of outcasts...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So pimp its scary

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The Hot AFC = Guys that are by woman's standards attractive or very attractive, and get by well on their looks despite their neediness and deep down insecurity.

The Baller = This guy will usually have a good job, or lots of money in general, but uses it more for bragging rights. He will lend out money as a means of controlling other people, and must have things set out to his advantage either monetarily or 'strategicaly'. This is all just a cover for an extremely insecure interior that is seemingly hidden to most, except those that truly know this person.

Just to show some of the grayer shades of AFCdom.
 

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The Mentally Retarded = Those who can not comprehend their own actions and would literally hump a strangers leg if they felt up to it.
 

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"Cuz when you say "AFC", its kinda vague"

Because this term applies to any person of any geek herd or cool doods that are chumps. There is no need to put them into categories because AFC is a category. You either are one or you arent, period.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AFC=Average Frustrated Chump

The Player =A person who gets pu$$y but is very insecure and can't keep a woman past a couple dates. Usually uses lines and such to get the women.
 

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Originally posted by neobrood





The haters = dont really associate with geeks... not considered "cool" either. They just hate many things about the world. They repel chicks cuz of that "aura" of hate (Um... used to be one of these people...) that they project. They project negative energy... In some cases, they get suicidal or violent. Mostly found alone.
Reminds me of a Dave Chapelle eposide when he had the Player Hater's Ball. They were pimps who were the "best player haters in the world" and traveled back in to time just to hate on people. It was pretty funny.


Also I have one. the Physco AFC. The guy who when he gets a girl, scares her into not leaving by controling her mentally or even physcially. Probaby the most insecure one of the group.
 

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I'm a geek, but I'm not an AFC. Ok, so maybe I'm a little geeky, but so what? I also used to be an ourcast and shy at the same time. Those were dark days.
 

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^ ouch

What do you call a person who has no problem approaching girls but does things wrong (doesn't KC, #C, too friendly, buys gifts, etc)

I usually just call those ppl AFCs but since you are being specific here....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Bookworm: Knows all there is to know about women and seduction, from books and websites, including this one, but when he goes out into the real world, just can't put ANY of it into play.
Uugh... I feel hit by this one.

I can put SOME of it into play tho. The more "advanced" stuff such as picking up random strangers in bars//buses//malls... need more practice.

But I got no problem approachin chicks in parties or co-workers, or any other kind of social event.

I think its all bout confidence tho. Still building it up little by little... :)
 

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hmmmmmmm how to get out of that outcast group . . . I have some close friends, but I dont really have a 'group' I consider myself more of a lone wolf than outcast lol I have no problem approaching most girls and dont consider myself an afc, but I still need to work on social skills with guys.
 

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Re: what does AFC stand for?

Originally posted by methodman
what does AFC stand for
It's a buzz-acronym that makes people feel like they belong to the super-exclusive club of Don Juans and pick-up artists.

Use it a lot if you wanna look cool here. :p
 

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Originally posted by neobrood
Uugh... I feel hit by this one.
Really? That means you believe its true.

If you take a reaction to what someone else says, than the problem lies in yourself, and you need to fix how you feel.
 
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