"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well it's been alllloooong time since i've been able to ask anyquestions as to my computer goin haywire. A couple of you may remembered i attempted to write "The High School Experiment".......man i must have been pretty outta it when I wrote that peice of crap.

Also since i've been gone I have been honing on my basic skills...and holly crap. I like the faces of the guys when they see me approach some of the hottest chicks and me be successful.

But anyways to the question. I seem to remember seeing somewere that taking a chick out the the theator's a bad idea, Well...I happen to live in a verry small town and there isn't very much else to go to!, so...what do you think, Theator or not?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A lot of people dont think that the movies is not such a good thing for early dates. This is because generally you actually watch the movie and its just not social enough, you dont get to talk to eachother that much etc. Personally I think that a movie date is great and is social enough but only if you go to the show fairly early(be one of the first few people in the theatre), so you can talk to your date and get to know her a little better. The time before the movie you can talk and DJ away, but if you dont have that time beforehand the date may be useless...aka you just went into a movie together and left together...and didnt make much progress. So unless you have dome quality time attached to the movie date, it probably not a good idea, but if you do it can be great. Just my opinion.


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I guess things are different in other parts of the country, but when anyone I know goes to the movies on a date, there is usually more making out then actually watching the movie.... not everyone is this way but a lot of the time. Even if you dont though, I can't think of a better place for kino, especially if you watch a scary movie.
 

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Originally posted by SomethingCreative
I guess things are different in other parts of the country, but when anyone I know goes to the movies on a date, there is usually more making out then actually watching the movie.... not everyone is this way but a lot of the time. Even if you dont though, I can't think of a better place for kino, especially if you watch a scary movie.
whilst thats true, the earlier points still stand, theres not much bonding or opportunity to use your conversational skills. Whilst its true about kino - i took a girl to the movie preview of the rerelease of alien (director's cut). You can also get a lot of kino in, via action dates like ice skating, playing pool, twister, which are also amazing. Movies can have the downside of attaching negative emotions to you, like if it was a bad film and it wasyour choice.
 
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