“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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In some interview Matthew McConaghey (sp?) was asked how a woman can tell if a guy is really into her. He said "if he'll do something really stupid when she asks him to."

Gotta wonder what the effects of that sage advice will be on the self-esteem of some gals as they notice that no guys with much value are "really into them". ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bonhomme said:
I"if he'll do something really stupid when she asks him to."
This pretty much describes 90% of the male population.
 

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Its actually true. A man WILL do some dumb sh!t for a girl he really likes. Of course noone wants to admit this, because its some dumb sh!t. But I find it endearing. "Awww... he likes me!" But I am a sweetheart, not some cold calculating b!tch looking for any sign of weakness so that I can come in for the kill...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bonhomme said:
In some interview Matthew McConaghey (sp?) was asked how a woman can tell if a guy is really into her. He said "if he'll do something really stupid when she asks him to."
Can anyone say "propose?" :whistle:

:p
 

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He is a celebrity. He doesn't need game.

He can just walk into a bar and tell the hottest girl in there "I wanna **** you. I'm Mathew McConaghough (sp?)" and she will still go home with him.
 

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Well he's engaged to a latina supermodel so I think you still need some game for that.
 

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ChrizZ said:
He is a celebrity. He doesn't need game.

He can just walk into a bar and tell the hottest girl in there "I wanna **** you. I'm Mathew McConaghough (sp?)" and she will still go home with him.
I've known lots of hot women turn down celebrities because they weren't charming or cool in real life. Turned them off straight away.

But then again I've also know lots of other women who have slept with them anyway.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nighthawk said:
I've known lots of hot women turn down celebrities because they weren't charming or cool in real life. Turned them off straight away.

But then again I've also know lots of other women who have slept with them anyway.
I have an idea.

Why don't we all become rock stars or actors?!. :yes:
 

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iqqi said:
Its actually true. A man WILL do some dumb sh!t for a girl he really likes. Of course noone wants to admit this, because its some dumb sh!t. But I find it endearing. "Awww... he likes me!" But I am a sweetheart, not some cold calculating b!tch looking for any sign of weakness so that I can come in for the kill...
Maybe when I was a kid. But not as a MAN. A MAN is NOT controlled by anyone.
 

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But I am a sweetheart, not some cold calculating b!tch looking for any sign of weakness so that I can come in for the kill...
Don't lie.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iqqi said:
But I find it endearing. "Awww... he likes me!" But I am a sweetheart, not some cold calculating b!tch looking for any sign of weakness so that I can come in for the kill...
Maybe so, but did the guys to whom you actually were most attracted do that if you asked them to?

(I'm not talking about stupid romantic gestures, I'm talking being "led by the nose")
 

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Bonhomme said:
Maybe so, but did the guys to whom you actually were most attracted do that if you asked them to?

(I'm not talking about stupid romantic gestures, I'm talking being "led by the nose")
I've asked guys who I was considering but not sure about, to do some pretty AFC crap. If they did it, it told me that they cared more about me than their reps. The best part is watching them struggle internally. Lol. I don't mean that in a mean spirited way... its touching. AND this is a huge confession, I'd NEVER let this on to anyone in real life.

I go all out for anyone I care about in LTR's, so I need to see a little something before I let it get too far. Call it a sh!t test.

Think of Janet Jackson's character in the opening scene of Poetic Justice, where her gangster boyfriend brings her back her Jujubees, or whatever it was she asked for. Then he got some booty... or he was going to get some, before he was shot to death.
 

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iqqi said:
I've asked guys who I was considering but not sure about, to do some pretty AFC crap. If they did it, it told me that they cared more about me than their reps. The best part is watching them struggle internally. Lol. I don't mean that in a mean spirited way... its touching. AND this is a huge confession, I'd NEVER let this on to anyone in real life.

I go all out for anyone I care about in LTR's, so I need to see a little something before I let it get too far. Call it a sh!t test.

Think of Janet Jackson's character in the opening scene of Poetic Justice, where her gangster boyfriend brings her back her Jujubees, or whatever it was she asked for. Then he got some booty... or he was going to get some, before he was shot to death.
Asking a bloke to pick up some jujubees or something like that is a reasonable request, if you're not inconveniencing the guy to an unreasonable degree.

An example of unreasonable is when gals called me out of the blue to give them a ride from somewhere, and it was not a real serious emergency and/or their own foolishness got them in the situation. Ixna, nada, sux2BU ....
 

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Bonhomme said:
An example of unreasonable is when gals called me out of the blue to give them a ride from somewhere, and it was not a real serious emergency and/or their own foolishness got them in the situation. Ixna, nada, sux2BU ....
That's mean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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