"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chucked off a forum Harsh?

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Well, I thought when the iron curtain came crashing down, the Nazis were defeated and pol pot was caught the age of tin pot dictators had gone.

But no they are still very much with us lurking as Moderators on internet forums(not here thank God).

OK how unreasonable is this. I have been a member of a bodybuilding/strength related forum for over three years. The other day out of the blue acces was denied.

I enquired and said I had two MAJOR vialations and a third would mean a lifetime ban. They have not told me what the infringements were at all.

I've worked out one and get this it was posting a link:eek:

the email I got was very snotty. I'm sure other members feel the same way but are too afraid to say anything.

Surely any other site would have posted and said, look read the rules bud, you did X wrong. End of story.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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who cares just get a new email and re-register.
 

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I'm not going to name it (just incase they do come after my folks:D ). All I know is I've been on forums for years, and never really had any problems at all until now.

I liken it to living in one of those Disney run towns where people have to paint their door only a certain colour and no one pipes up for fear of being chucked out.

Get this.

Here are some rules.

You must not talk about any suppliments including fat burning substances. What like if I say I'm off for a coffee....

Another one is you will be immediately expelled if you are deemed by the moderator to be 'ranting' (like I am now).

Any words where you use **&&XX or whatever that may be swear words you will be banned.

And this is where I have no chance.

Sarcasm will not be tolerated.

For fvck sake this is an iron game forum. I seriously worry about the level of compliency these guys are accepting, it smacks millgram experiements and hitler youth devotedness.

Basically, I think the webmaster IS the moderator and as they say ultimate power corrupts.

It's a shame because I really like the people on the forum. Now I feel I must watch every word I write incase I make a minor infringement.

Although he's saying iv'e 'got one last chance' I'm thinking of using it to raise members awareness.

I may need some tips on reregistering and IP addresses



;)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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firstly i do no think you people should be making comparisions like this to the nazis, but secondly you got the whole thing wrong! the iron curtan had nothing what so ever to do with the nazis, it was during the cold war, it was a seperation of western and eastern europe, a seperation between capatilism and communism. I forget the date, but it was deffintly after world war 2 had ended.
 

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............due to the defeat of the Nazi's..........retard.
 

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but they where defeated long before the iron curtan came up let alone went down.
 

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*sigh* I see a history lesson is in order.

The "iron curtain" went up becuase the Nazi's were defeated, and the soviets moved to take up territory in eastern europe. The west growing fearful of this new power, erected the Berlin wall (1960 i believe), to mark the end of Russia's territory.

Don't post on something you know little about. You know.....women.......Iron curtains...

Edit: since you obviously don't know what you're on about, the iron curtain wasn't actually there, it's not something that was erected. It's a term meaning, there is an impassible army drawing the line of boundray.
 

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you obviously know nothing, it was not the west who set up the berlin wall, it was the USSR to stop people migrating from east to west Berlin.

The iron curtan (not a real wall just both sides not talking to each other) did not go up as soon as germany was defeated it was some years latter.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Check mate, sorry if my initial text miscommunicated what I was saying. I meant them all as seperate dictatorships in time.

To think that I am making an absolute and direct comparison between Nazis and this moderator is a bit of a stretch, even if I feel he's out of order.

A serious point however is when we all start feeling we can't talk about something because of ridicule or persecution, this is exactly the point and comparison I am trying to make with the begginings of Nazi Germany.

ps can we stop talking about nazis now or I'll get banned from this forum too.
 

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Originally posted on an on-line encylopedia:

The Iron Curtain is a term used in the West to refer to the boundary line which divided Europe into two separate areas of political influence from the end of World War II until the end of the Cold War.

Anway, sorry to hijack your post Alpine,. i'll leave it now.
 

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relitivly, form the end of the war because it was there for soo many years but there was still a gap, it was not till 1946 it was set up.
 

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Hey i got an idea...

dont go to gay forums.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Alpine
Check mate, sorry if my initial text miscommunicated what I was saying.
your forgiven ;)
 
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