"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chubby, Wide Face. How to get rid

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A year ago I weighed about 193 (5'11). Today it's at 157, yet I STILL have a wide chubby face. At first I thought I had just a bad shaped skull. Now I think I have chubby cheeks ON TOP of it.

Has anyone here been through this problem and fixed it? Should I go further down to the 140's? I'm trying to drink water a lot and what-not. Nothing seems to work. There's no way girls find this face attractive. I'm only attractive from certain angles, like when my head is tilted or to the side. Perhaps in darkly lit rooms where there is shadow covering my cheeks. But just looking normal, straight ahead, my face seems far to big for my skinny body
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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your best bet is probably to gain muscle on other body parts. I have a big skull and wide face as well, so small shoulders don't fit me.
The increased testosterone levels through workout may also shapen you face a certain extent.
 
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Sounds like just your face shape, only surgery or anorexia can change it. What threestorms suggested is probably best.
 
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kingsam said:
what is your body fat levels ?
what were they when you were heavier?
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I'm not sure what my body fat level was before. Never measured. The only time it was measured was by this girl at the gym that worked there a while ago. She did the official test and it came to like 15%. This was back when i was still working my way down, I believe I was at 167 lbs. I'm at 157 now however and don't know what my percentage is or how to measure it. I've been lifting and doing ab workouts, my stomach is pretty flat.

My problem is that most people say that facial fat is the FIRST to go. Not the case with me, even over 30 pounds later
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ThreeStorms said:
your best bet is probably to gain muscle on other body parts. I have a big skull and wide face as well, so small shoulders don't fit me.
The increased testosterone levels through workout may also shapen you face a certain extent.
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So I should do alot of lifting, deadlifting, etc?
 
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exactly. Also, limit your sugar intake (but as you lost that much weight I guess you already do that). Just roam the threads here there is plenty of info
 
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