"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chubby, Wide Face. How to get rid

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A year ago I weighed about 193 (5'11). Today it's at 157, yet I STILL have a wide chubby face. At first I thought I had just a bad shaped skull. Now I think I have chubby cheeks ON TOP of it.

Has anyone here been through this problem and fixed it? Should I go further down to the 140's? I'm trying to drink water a lot and what-not. Nothing seems to work. There's no way girls find this face attractive. I'm only attractive from certain angles, like when my head is tilted or to the side. Perhaps in darkly lit rooms where there is shadow covering my cheeks. But just looking normal, straight ahead, my face seems far to big for my skinny body
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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your best bet is probably to gain muscle on other body parts. I have a big skull and wide face as well, so small shoulders don't fit me.
The increased testosterone levels through workout may also shapen you face a certain extent.
 
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Sounds like just your face shape, only surgery or anorexia can change it. What threestorms suggested is probably best.
 
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kingsam said:
what is your body fat levels ?
what were they when you were heavier?
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I'm not sure what my body fat level was before. Never measured. The only time it was measured was by this girl at the gym that worked there a while ago. She did the official test and it came to like 15%. This was back when i was still working my way down, I believe I was at 167 lbs. I'm at 157 now however and don't know what my percentage is or how to measure it. I've been lifting and doing ab workouts, my stomach is pretty flat.

My problem is that most people say that facial fat is the FIRST to go. Not the case with me, even over 30 pounds later
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ThreeStorms said:
your best bet is probably to gain muscle on other body parts. I have a big skull and wide face as well, so small shoulders don't fit me.
The increased testosterone levels through workout may also shapen you face a certain extent.
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So I should do alot of lifting, deadlifting, etc?
 
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exactly. Also, limit your sugar intake (but as you lost that much weight I guess you already do that). Just roam the threads here there is plenty of info
 
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