Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Chubby Chasers? WTF?

SuperMan_Wuss

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I have a question for you all. What the heck is up with chubby chasers? have any of you guys ran into these types of chicks?
A few years ago I was hugely fat. I was about 300 lbs. I was miserable because I never had any attention from women. I think it was mainly because I was in a state of self loathing and I was serriously AFC and low status. now that I am alot thinner, i.e. I dropped 100 lbs. I am much more confident with the ladies. so here is the hting. I have been showing some girls lately what I used to look like and 5 or six said I used to be so cute and they think I should gain the weight back. I am serriously freaked out by this. Are there more girls out there that like fat guys than I thought or what??? any of you guys have stories to tell???
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Spike_the_cowboy

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Chunk vs. Hunk

Personally, I would not know if they like fat guys better than fit guys. But if you know anything about women, you know that your looks do not really matter that much anyways. Your style, attitude, ect. - that is what really matters to most women. I see ALOT of HB 9's and 10's with chunky guys all the time.

However, being fat is very unhealthy. So you should simply ignore their foolish requests to gain it all back. You are better off without it.

P.S. Nice signature~

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Originally posted by SuperMan_Wuss
I have been showing some girls lately what I used to look like and 5 or six said I used to be so cute and they think I should gain the weight back. I am serriously freaked out by this. Are there more girls out there that like fat guys than I thought or what???
ahh well theres your problem, your another one whos made the honest mistake of listening to what a chick says.

chicks also say they want flowers and good guys but we all know thats not always the case. dont we?
 

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THats true, listening to women will fukc your mind up. BTW I would never gain the weight back, especially not for a female. It was just an odd thing for me to have a few girls say I looked better as a fatty. But more girls like me as I am now.
 

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Re: Chunk vs. Hunk

Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
But if you know anything about women, you know that your looks do not really matter that much anyways.

:cool:
This is what ugly guys tell each other in order to feel better about the situation. If a girl says she doesn't judge by looks she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

As for the "chubby chasing" I've seen this in men and women and I always say "that sick m*th*rf*cker" seems like there's a fetish out there for everything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sisko

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I get the feeling she is just saying that in a way that you do really looked cuter, but not better. Cutter like a puppy is cute,
and she wouldnt date him.

And I would never get the weight better no matter what, because I bet you feel tons better this way.
 

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All of you are WRONG!

She wanted to try and control your emotions by telling you that you are uglier since you lost the weight. Just like if your attitude is more alpha than before some "friends" would say your personality was better before to try and test your emotions and hopefully bring insecurity out of you.

And guess what! She did!


You lost the weight, now be happy and just know that 95% of the mother****as aroung you are full of ****.
 

obijuan

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Originally posted by Bunk 040
All of you are WRONG!

She wanted to try and control your emotions by telling you that you are uglier since you lost the weight. Just like if your attitude is more alpha than before some "friends" would say your personality was better before to try and test your emotions and hopefully bring insecurity out of you.

And guess what! She did!


You lost the weight, now be happy and just know that 95% of the mother****as aroung you are full of ****.
Very true. Some people will try and hold you back once you begin to succeed.
 

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Very true. Some people will try and hold you back once you begin to succeed.
O yes............ And most of the time its people who you know or are aquanted with.
 

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Originally posted by On_the_Top
O yes............ And most of the time its people who you know or are aquanted with.
They're afraid you think you're better than them or something.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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