Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Christmas music that doesn't suck

theunflushables

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I hate christmas music with a passion, it sends me into fits of rage, I turn green get really bigh and destroy things (not literally). With that being said I heard the duet with the Hives and Cyndi Lauper "A Christmas Duel"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=My5Bzf0PQhc

Also have a few christmas songs by The Fall. Ideally I want to have a good playlist built up so I can enjoy christmas without the crap music. Any other suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desdinova

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My biggest problem with most Christmas music is that it's too mediocre. Who needs to hear people like Anne Murray, Billy Joel, Michael Bolton, and Bryan Adams all sing awful pop renditions of White Christmas?

I like anything with some kind of style to it. I enjoy the hell out of Elvis's Christmas music. I also enjoy the Boney M Christmas album. I swear those are the only two Christmas albums I genuinely enjoy. Oh yeah, and the Peanuts Christmas music is good too. Other than that, the rest of it is pretty much a waste.
 

Forty0ztoFreedom

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I enjoy Christmas music. Brings back so many memories.

Check out Pearl Jam's cover of Stevie Wonder's "Some Day At Christmas" . . its awesome.
 

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I found one here for the nerd in all of us "I'm Gonna Spend Christmas With A Dalek" by The Go-Go's (the original 60's band, not the one from the 80's). Gotta love Dr. Who. lol
 

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"A Charlie Brown Christmas" is classic. A lot of smooth jazz in there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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The Dramatics Christmas CD is pretty pimp. Turn down the lights and get the lady under the glow of the Cristmas tree for some hot lovin'.

Also I heard a review (on the news) of what sounded like a lounge style Christmas cd. I think it was Tony Bennet. It sounded real groovy.
 
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