"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Choosing the most attractive haircut

Choose the most attractive haircut

  • 1st model - Medium; Messy

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 2nd model - Medium; Bedroom hair

    Votes: 2 50.0%
  • 3rd model - Medium; Telletubies like

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 4th model - Medium; Classic

    Votes: 1 25.0%
  • 5th model - Medium; Messy

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 6th model - Long; Classic

    Votes: 1 25.0%
  • 7th model - Long ; Samurai

    Votes: 0 0.0%

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No.Danny

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I would say between 3,4 or 5 you can't got wrong but I don't really know how you look like so can't say what would fit you.
 

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I always get more looks from women when I've got a buzz cut. It gives me a certain edge that longer hair doesn't.
 

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I had some success with #2 I'd just ask for a scissor cut, no clippers. Like a Caesar cut, then style it up with matt clay. Short back and sides with long on top is popular these days too. Zayn Malik has some cool styles.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Depends on your face

Their is a like 500 long thread on bodybuilding forum on hair styles they have some great ideas. I don't like any of those mediums styles because the part on top in WAY too long compared to the sides. It looks silly. If you take down the top by like 2-3 inches so the contrast isn't so much than I'm okay with it.

Those those styles will only look good if..
1. You have a 9/10 face.
2. Under 15% bodyfat.
3. Willing to spend 30 minutes blowdrying and straightening and styling your hair.

I recommend these hairstyles



http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m841r0iJBU1qmliego1_500.gif


or


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RA3ULeZViLA

pause at 1:40 (guy in black shirt, I am getting that cut Friday)
 

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I shave my hair.

2 reasons, the first is that my hair is wavy with a very annoying cowlick which annoys the hell out of me and means gel and wax are almost useless to me.

The second is that I cannot be stuffed doing my hair for 30 min every day. I know guys that spend almost an hour getting every strand of hair right. I'm too busy and I couldn't care less about my hair.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nmartinez12443

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:-) said:

Spam: irrelevant or inappropriate messages sent on the Internet to a large number of recipients.

That actor is Mikey Day who is married. Famous from the MTV show Wild'N Out.

The point of this thread was hairstyles and I was offering some alternatives.
My thread offered advice. Your thread was spam because it was irrelevant.

It was also illogical because your implying that a hairstyle on a "gay" man would not be okay for another dude. Good luck with your homophobic goals of 2015. I await your useless response and GIF.
 

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VladPatton said:
That fûckin man-bun needs to be outlawed.
I seriously cringe everytime I see a man-bun, 99% of guys should not try to pull it off. I rock between a fauxhawk and an undercut, it's very clean and simple to style. It also Takes less than 10 minutes to style for all the lazy ****s out there. Just google undercut and you'll get lots of examples :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nmartinez12443

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\\mattyice// said:
I seriously cringe everytime I see a man-bun, 99% of guys should not try to pull it off. I rock between a fauxhawk and an undercut, it's very clean and simple to style. It also Takes less than 10 minutes to style for all the lazy ****s out there. Just google undercut and you'll get lots of examples :up:
The disconnected undercut is very very hard to pull of if you dont have a great looking face.
 

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nmartinez12443 said:
The disconnected undercut is very very hard to pull of if you dont have a great looking face.
Almost anything is very very hard to pull of if you don't have a great looking face. Face>everything.

Short on the sides (like 9mm) and a bit longer on the top always looks good tho. Even if you got an average face, you'll look athletic... and more athletic = more attractive.
 

nmartinez12443

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DiegoSantori said:
Almost anything is very very hard to pull of if you don't have a great looking face. Face>everything.

Short on the sides (like 9mm) and a bit longer on the top always looks good tho. Even if you got an average face, you'll look athletic... and more athletic = more attractive.

I kind of disagree. Anything that is extremely short like a buzz cut, bald, bald fade, disconnected undercut, etc. These all pull attention away from the hair and more towards the persons face. If I had an ugly face I would NOT get something very short.

However, the number one thing you should do is pick a hair style to match your face. My face is a diamond shape so I looked at hairstyles that matched it for me.


http://www.fashionbeans.com/2013/the-right-haircut-for-your-face-shape/
 

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Receiding hair line here, as long as it doesnt look too obvious Im happy.

Last time I had so much hair for a hair cut like that I was in high school...and they were wavy so no way to have them too long.

Thankfully my face takes away the attention from my thin front, my broken nose works magic for that purpose.
 

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All of those hairstyle are great if you are white or a person with straight hair.

Im latino and have slightly wavy thinish hair. Any recommendations? As long as I can remember all I have done was an undercut fade with the top slicked back with gel.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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