"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Choosing the most attractive haircut

Choose the most attractive haircut

  • 1st model - Medium; Messy

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 2nd model - Medium; Bedroom hair

    Votes: 2 50.0%
  • 3rd model - Medium; Telletubies like

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 4th model - Medium; Classic

    Votes: 1 25.0%
  • 5th model - Medium; Messy

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 6th model - Long; Classic

    Votes: 1 25.0%
  • 7th model - Long ; Samurai

    Votes: 0 0.0%

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No.Danny

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I would say between 3,4 or 5 you can't got wrong but I don't really know how you look like so can't say what would fit you.
 

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I always get more looks from women when I've got a buzz cut. It gives me a certain edge that longer hair doesn't.
 

raider87

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I had some success with #2 I'd just ask for a scissor cut, no clippers. Like a Caesar cut, then style it up with matt clay. Short back and sides with long on top is popular these days too. Zayn Malik has some cool styles.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nmartinez12443

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Depends on your face

Their is a like 500 long thread on bodybuilding forum on hair styles they have some great ideas. I don't like any of those mediums styles because the part on top in WAY too long compared to the sides. It looks silly. If you take down the top by like 2-3 inches so the contrast isn't so much than I'm okay with it.

Those those styles will only look good if..
1. You have a 9/10 face.
2. Under 15% bodyfat.
3. Willing to spend 30 minutes blowdrying and straightening and styling your hair.

I recommend these hairstyles



http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m841r0iJBU1qmliego1_500.gif


or


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RA3ULeZViLA

pause at 1:40 (guy in black shirt, I am getting that cut Friday)
 

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I shave my hair.

2 reasons, the first is that my hair is wavy with a very annoying cowlick which annoys the hell out of me and means gel and wax are almost useless to me.

The second is that I cannot be stuffed doing my hair for 30 min every day. I know guys that spend almost an hour getting every strand of hair right. I'm too busy and I couldn't care less about my hair.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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nmartinez12443

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:-) said:

Spam: irrelevant or inappropriate messages sent on the Internet to a large number of recipients.

That actor is Mikey Day who is married. Famous from the MTV show Wild'N Out.

The point of this thread was hairstyles and I was offering some alternatives.
My thread offered advice. Your thread was spam because it was irrelevant.

It was also illogical because your implying that a hairstyle on a "gay" man would not be okay for another dude. Good luck with your homophobic goals of 2015. I await your useless response and GIF.
 

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VladPatton said:
That fûckin man-bun needs to be outlawed.
I seriously cringe everytime I see a man-bun, 99% of guys should not try to pull it off. I rock between a fauxhawk and an undercut, it's very clean and simple to style. It also Takes less than 10 minutes to style for all the lazy ****s out there. Just google undercut and you'll get lots of examples :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nmartinez12443

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\\mattyice// said:
I seriously cringe everytime I see a man-bun, 99% of guys should not try to pull it off. I rock between a fauxhawk and an undercut, it's very clean and simple to style. It also Takes less than 10 minutes to style for all the lazy ****s out there. Just google undercut and you'll get lots of examples :up:
The disconnected undercut is very very hard to pull of if you dont have a great looking face.
 

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nmartinez12443 said:
The disconnected undercut is very very hard to pull of if you dont have a great looking face.
Almost anything is very very hard to pull of if you don't have a great looking face. Face>everything.

Short on the sides (like 9mm) and a bit longer on the top always looks good tho. Even if you got an average face, you'll look athletic... and more athletic = more attractive.
 

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DiegoSantori said:
Almost anything is very very hard to pull of if you don't have a great looking face. Face>everything.

Short on the sides (like 9mm) and a bit longer on the top always looks good tho. Even if you got an average face, you'll look athletic... and more athletic = more attractive.

I kind of disagree. Anything that is extremely short like a buzz cut, bald, bald fade, disconnected undercut, etc. These all pull attention away from the hair and more towards the persons face. If I had an ugly face I would NOT get something very short.

However, the number one thing you should do is pick a hair style to match your face. My face is a diamond shape so I looked at hairstyles that matched it for me.


http://www.fashionbeans.com/2013/the-right-haircut-for-your-face-shape/
 

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Receiding hair line here, as long as it doesnt look too obvious Im happy.

Last time I had so much hair for a hair cut like that I was in high school...and they were wavy so no way to have them too long.

Thankfully my face takes away the attention from my thin front, my broken nose works magic for that purpose.
 

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All of those hairstyle are great if you are white or a person with straight hair.

Im latino and have slightly wavy thinish hair. Any recommendations? As long as I can remember all I have done was an undercut fade with the top slicked back with gel.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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