Hi all,
A bit of background before i ask for some advice:
Just started first year of college (in the uk, so i guess thats the equivlent of a freshman or something in the US) i have taken alot of the tips from this site, I walk around confidantly.... i talk to all the girls i can.... Mind you i have a pretty poor record with girls (only 1 girlfriend).... but i digress....
Recently One girl i was walking thru the park with as good as said she and one of her friends are into me..... and im pretty sure theres another in a different class..... But theres also this real FINE woman (to me shes a 9-10, ass like KAPOW, pretty face, sweet personality)..... So heres the deal the friend that told me she and her other friend likes me i dont like, the other friend i could see myself with, but this third girl is the one i WANT.... now we chat, wisper in each others ears (only been in college for just 2 weeks) went and got coffee today with her (in the rain lol) but i dont know if she sees me as a friend, because shes mentions this other guy around college about how much she likes him etc.... I take it thats her subtly saying dont hit on me? or is she testing me and playing ****ing games......
Either way tomorow im gonna get her # (aint no question about that
) but im thinking if i should even bother with her when i dont know whats shes feelin bout me... or if i should go with this other girl who i know for a fact likes me but is less physically attractive (i get on well with both).... ie should i settle or try and intensify things with me and the HB9 and risk rejection (thats not the problem but i would have to be in her class for the rest of the year... might be awekward).... also those two friends are starting to really compoete for my attention.....
Ok i know that wasent very coherant... a bit all over.... any feedback on the situation? especially relating to the two friends (if i pick one im gonna have resentment for the other for the rest of the year i would imagine).... anyways ty...
A bit of background before i ask for some advice:
Just started first year of college (in the uk, so i guess thats the equivlent of a freshman or something in the US) i have taken alot of the tips from this site, I walk around confidantly.... i talk to all the girls i can.... Mind you i have a pretty poor record with girls (only 1 girlfriend).... but i digress....
Recently One girl i was walking thru the park with as good as said she and one of her friends are into me..... and im pretty sure theres another in a different class..... But theres also this real FINE woman (to me shes a 9-10, ass like KAPOW, pretty face, sweet personality)..... So heres the deal the friend that told me she and her other friend likes me i dont like, the other friend i could see myself with, but this third girl is the one i WANT.... now we chat, wisper in each others ears (only been in college for just 2 weeks) went and got coffee today with her (in the rain lol) but i dont know if she sees me as a friend, because shes mentions this other guy around college about how much she likes him etc.... I take it thats her subtly saying dont hit on me? or is she testing me and playing ****ing games......
Either way tomorow im gonna get her # (aint no question about that
) but im thinking if i should even bother with her when i dont know whats shes feelin bout me... or if i should go with this other girl who i know for a fact likes me but is less physically attractive (i get on well with both).... ie should i settle or try and intensify things with me and the HB9 and risk rejection (thats not the problem but i would have to be in her class for the rest of the year... might be awekward).... also those two friends are starting to really compoete for my attention.....Ok i know that wasent very coherant... a bit all over.... any feedback on the situation? especially relating to the two friends (if i pick one im gonna have resentment for the other for the rest of the year i would imagine).... anyways ty...