"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi all,

A bit of background before i ask for some advice:

Just started first year of college (in the uk, so i guess thats the equivlent of a freshman or something in the US) i have taken alot of the tips from this site, I walk around confidantly.... i talk to all the girls i can.... Mind you i have a pretty poor record with girls (only 1 girlfriend).... but i digress....

Recently One girl i was walking thru the park with as good as said she and one of her friends are into me..... and im pretty sure theres another in a different class..... But theres also this real FINE woman (to me shes a 9-10, ass like KAPOW, pretty face, sweet personality)..... So heres the deal the friend that told me she and her other friend likes me i dont like, the other friend i could see myself with, but this third girl is the one i WANT.... now we chat, wisper in each others ears (only been in college for just 2 weeks) went and got coffee today with her (in the rain lol) but i dont know if she sees me as a friend, because shes mentions this other guy around college about how much she likes him etc.... I take it thats her subtly saying dont hit on me? or is she testing me and playing ****ing games......

Either way tomorow im gonna get her # (aint no question about that :p) but im thinking if i should even bother with her when i dont know whats shes feelin bout me... or if i should go with this other girl who i know for a fact likes me but is less physically attractive (i get on well with both).... ie should i settle or try and intensify things with me and the HB9 and risk rejection (thats not the problem but i would have to be in her class for the rest of the year... might be awekward).... also those two friends are starting to really compoete for my attention.....

Ok i know that wasent very coherant... a bit all over.... any feedback on the situation? especially relating to the two friends (if i pick one im gonna have resentment for the other for the rest of the year i would imagine).... anyways ty...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go for the one thats a defenite. That way, if it doesnyt work out youve had social proofing for the 9 later on.
 
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isn't it funny how sometimes we would be happy if we had just one women interested in us and other times there are 2-3 of them and all of the sudden we have to pick.

Well in my opinion it will always work out better if you don't pick the most attractive one. Unless her interest level is amazingly high you will have some short lived fun and 1000 headaches because she will drive you crazy.

Oh the other hand, pick the less attractive one and you will be happier for a much longer period of time with half the headaches.
 
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Originally posted by RaMar
Oh the other hand, pick the less attractive one and you will be happier for a much longer period of time with half the headaches.
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but will you be satisfied with a less attractive girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yea i think i could be.... shes more down to earth than the incredibly hot one... but the hot one has a GHETTO booty :)... and so does the other one (and im a butt man).... i dont know this hot one is ****ing around she either wants to be friends with me or is playing games with me.... do i really need that hassel? when i know for sure this other girl digs me..... I feel the hot ones a bit out of my league (i know thats not the attitude to have, and i dont around her or anywhere else obveously.... but truthfully thats what i think....) also im much more mature than her (only 2 years older) but i cant see myself discussing much more than the superficial in life with her.... isnt it a bastard you wait and wait for some women and then a few come along......
 
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On another level, how do you guys think this is for a way to maike **** clear to the really hot girl:

"Hey (name), listen we becomin friends now yea?, well before that i gotta let you know i think your funny, sexy, intelligent and we should get to know each other better..... I dont play games with girls so i just had to say that.... :)"
 
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