"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys.

I have a problem. Im with a girl who broke up with me twice. And uh, probably cheated on me. We are together 4 years now. Since last breakup i learned game and understood the error of my ways.

Now i have options and few lovers. Which has made her more horny and loving and clingy. This all has created a really awful dilemma for me. If she broke up with me twice in the past and cheated on me. Will she do it again in the future, now that im running the game on her?

Im 28, shes 23. She likes bad boys, im not a bad boy. I can play one really well now. I kinda understand why every bad thing happened in the past. I was a really whiny, flowers every week, made breakfast every day. I belived that it was the right thing to do.

So my question is... is it better to start new with another girl? Will my past betaness matter anymore, now that ive really cleaned up after myself? I know that game made her love me again, and ihave feelings for her too.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't overanalyze. Replace her and chalk it up to experience. She cheated. That's all you need to know.

Dump her. You sound like a guy who deserves better.
 
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She is not worth any more of your time. Cheating = Next!

And yes - if she has before, she will again.
Even if you just suspect it, its probably true.

If you have options then make good use of them, grab your self-respect and walk.
 
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Odds are she WILL cheat again. It's part of her character. Always move on when you are not happy, no matter how she makes you feel temporarily. Just think how many times you tasted some other dude's wang when you kissed her. Not good. You took the red pill and now can recognize your past self was begging to be shyt on, so don't backtrack now, and move forward in all areas of your life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't see why after 4 years you would try to game your girlfriend, she should by then already love you for you!

She isn't worth anymore time and attention move on and enjoy your life.

stress is caused by giving a f u c k .
 
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