Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Choosing between girls

Bob333

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Hey guys.

I have a problem. Im with a girl who broke up with me twice. And uh, probably cheated on me. We are together 4 years now. Since last breakup i learned game and understood the error of my ways.

Now i have options and few lovers. Which has made her more horny and loving and clingy. This all has created a really awful dilemma for me. If she broke up with me twice in the past and cheated on me. Will she do it again in the future, now that im running the game on her?

Im 28, shes 23. She likes bad boys, im not a bad boy. I can play one really well now. I kinda understand why every bad thing happened in the past. I was a really whiny, flowers every week, made breakfast every day. I belived that it was the right thing to do.

So my question is... is it better to start new with another girl? Will my past betaness matter anymore, now that ive really cleaned up after myself? I know that game made her love me again, and ihave feelings for her too.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Welcome

Don't overanalyze. Replace her and chalk it up to experience. She cheated. That's all you need to know.

Dump her. You sound like a guy who deserves better.
 

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She is not worth any more of your time. Cheating = Next!

And yes - if she has before, she will again.
Even if you just suspect it, its probably true.

If you have options then make good use of them, grab your self-respect and walk.
 

VladPatton

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Odds are she WILL cheat again. It's part of her character. Always move on when you are not happy, no matter how she makes you feel temporarily. Just think how many times you tasted some other dude's wang when you kissed her. Not good. You took the red pill and now can recognize your past self was begging to be shyt on, so don't backtrack now, and move forward in all areas of your life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Purefilth

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I don't see why after 4 years you would try to game your girlfriend, she should by then already love you for you!

She isn't worth anymore time and attention move on and enjoy your life.

stress is caused by giving a f u c k .
 
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