"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2nd_Chance

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So yeah, I am stuck... choosing between 2 girls. I am 100% sure both like me, and both want to be with me. Great. And I sorta like both.

ARGGG.. this pisses me off. I don't owe anything to either, but... how the hell am I supposed to pick? I liked it somewhat better when I was chasing the chicks... not them coming after me, cuz rejecting someone sucks just like being rejected does.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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strey

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who says you have to reject one of them, do them both and come back and tell me how good it was and how i was right
 
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DavenJuan

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SPIN PLATES...

you dont know which you would rather be with which leads me to believe that you dont know them all that well.

which also means you dont need to be settled down with one over the other. HAVE FUN. enjoy them both and make sure to explain that you have no plans right now to be committed.

TRUST ME,
chances are that IF they like you and arent specifically looking for a LTR, then they may not object to this when you are straight forward.
 
Huffman

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Yeah, just don't decide too early.
You know how this goes, as soon as you give yourself to one girl exclusively, both will lose interest and you'll be left with nothing.

This kind of social proof plays a very big part in you being attractive.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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