"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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choosing between 2 girls

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2nd_Chance

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So yeah, I am stuck... choosing between 2 girls. I am 100% sure both like me, and both want to be with me. Great. And I sorta like both.

ARGGG.. this pisses me off. I don't owe anything to either, but... how the hell am I supposed to pick? I liked it somewhat better when I was chasing the chicks... not them coming after me, cuz rejecting someone sucks just like being rejected does.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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strey

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who says you have to reject one of them, do them both and come back and tell me how good it was and how i was right
 
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SPIN PLATES...

you dont know which you would rather be with which leads me to believe that you dont know them all that well.

which also means you dont need to be settled down with one over the other. HAVE FUN. enjoy them both and make sure to explain that you have no plans right now to be committed.

TRUST ME,
chances are that IF they like you and arent specifically looking for a LTR, then they may not object to this when you are straight forward.
 
Huffman

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Yeah, just don't decide too early.
You know how this goes, as soon as you give yourself to one girl exclusively, both will lose interest and you'll be left with nothing.

This kind of social proof plays a very big part in you being attractive.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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