"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Reykhel

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Gents, when you are so desperate for a woman and what she can "bring to your life", take a moment to consider what she can take from your life..

This doesn't only apply to women but it applies to the friends and family you entertain in your life.

Nobody can avoid "negative" people or situations and people who tell you that you must be "positive" all of the time are not living in reality. You can visit your dark side and explore and pull the trigger. It's not a question of avoiding and cutting off people.....

For me personally I had to learn to be super selective with whom I let into my life....however, given the nature of life I cannot just switch off the world and say no. People are here, people are real...

but who is running this ship. is it me or is it them..,..

Why is this psycho blue haired bytch suddently knecking my 21 year old redbreast? I let her in..

Why is my "friend" suddenly asking me for money and "giving me advice"? I let him in...

Fvck these cvnts.they have the potential to drag you down. don't invite them in......

learn to be choosy......and watch what happens
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ohrein

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There's an old adage that you are the sum of the five people you spend the most time with. I'm not sure if it's true, but it's good advice either way. Pick people who elevate you and improve your life. No one's perfect but there are some great people out there.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Humans are social creatures. We cannot just get rid of our desire to interact with others, lest we lose a part of ourselves in the process. I learnt that the hard way....fortunately something pulled me back.

I have seen the strongest of people become influenced by the current eventually. I tried making myself as strong as I could. I realized that I needed to be tougher too (and yes, there is a difference between strength and toughness). I couldn’t do it. Fate didn’t want that of me. My brother is naturally tough minded and hard to change. My own parents said that they’ve never known someone in their whole lives to be like him. He isn’t easily influenced at all, ever since he was a kid. Very proud. But I saw him change and become negatively influenced by the current once he decided he somewhat cared about having fun and socializing with others. It took a long damn time and with some really intense world-class mind fvckery battering him day by day, but eventually he did change. Maybe it’s just because of his age though. But we’ll know for sure within the next several years.

Point is, it’s very important to be careful with the people you surround yourself with, and to be wary of the overall environment you are in too. It takes a very special kind of person to be able to resist the flow of society for a long time. But there is no fully sane person who can resist it forever.
 

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Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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