"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Choose your animal

I-am-someone

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Here's a tip I never thought I'd make:

Choose your animal!

I was talking to this girl this afternoon, and she told me she looked at every guy and compared him to an animal. Some guys look like dogs, some guys look like cats, some look like rats. Basically, most guys can be categorized as some kind of animal, just like women can. The interesting thing is, that attraction is also based in part on this.

Women that look like a cat, a leopard or anything else catlike are usually found to be attractive. Some girls look like little puppies, which can also be very cute. There's more animals that people can look like.

However, my tip is: Choose your animal. You probably already look like a certain type of animal, without even realizing it. Enhance that appearance (in a human-like way). Tips on my side are the following:
  • The lion,
  • the tiger,
  • the bull,
  • the leopard.
But I believe some of you can think of others, which suit you better, as well.

Personally, I look like a lion. Everybody in my family looks like a lion. I have long dark-blonde hair, a little goatee, etc. I actually do resemble a lion quite a bit, and the more I pronounce that, the more women are attracted to me (without any effort on my side). Oh yeah, that, and I work out ;).
I actually notice I've started to behave more like a lion as well. I used to be very outgoing and talk to everybody I knew. Now I'm usually a little more reserved, powerful, but striking when the time is right. The women are actually doing all the work for me as well, just like lionesses ;).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Vypros

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lol

Again with the looks.

When are you guys going to learn that looks don't matter in this game?
 

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Vypros said:
lol

Again with the looks.

When are you guys going to learn that looks don't matter in this game?
Good looks are not a prerequisite for attraction or game but looks do help. I'm curious what I look like... tell me what I look like for shyts and giggles.
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AZHSN8S&key=GYF
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I-am-someone

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Vypros said:
lol

Again with the looks.

When are you guys going to learn that looks don't matter in this game?
I-am-someone said:
Here's a tip I never thought I'd make
I normally don't do posts like this (about looks), but it's actually not just about looks. It's also about your game and personality.

By the way, looks do matter. The whole package matters; if you've got great game but sh¡tty looks your results will suffer, if you've got good looks but sh¡tty game you will get no results.

Good looks are not a prerequisite for attraction or game but looks do help. I'm curious what I look like... tell me what I look like for shyts and giggles.
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AZHSN8S&key=GYF
I believe you mostly resemble a tiger or another cat-like animal. Good point to start from.
 

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I'm disappointed because I know I don't look like a falcon :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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great tip. i'm serious.

the truth is, looks do matter. BUT!! it all depends on what the girl finds attractive, you might be dressed nice and preppy, but the girl hates that style, so even though you look good, it hinders you. Thus, the best advice is to wear and dress how you want and spend the time you would've spent getting the perfect look down on improving your personality.
 

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Looks do matter, since they (often) make the first impression on a person, but beauty is only one part of the presentation. Style, neatness, cleanliness, attitude and demeanor, posture: all these and more combine to give you your final appearance. Also, when they combine they complement each other, so the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. So by striving to look and act like a lion, or a wolf, or a naked molerat, you become more congruent and (in the mind's eye) more pleasing.
 

Vypros

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WisdomofaMadman said:
Looks do matter,
For the purposes of THIS site and what you are trying to learn here, NO THEY DON'T.

Anybody with a couple hundred bucks can fix their looks. A good shave, a good haircut, and some stylish clothes and voila! Your looks are fixed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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But Bjerte doesn't have an animal.
Dr Beard is Pigeons. All Pigeons idolize Dr Beard, for Dr Beard is a man! Who else do you know can take ball flicking, pigeon fighting and still get the girl in the end?
 

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I wanna be a Bonobo ))))))
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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