"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Choose your animal

I-am-someone

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Here's a tip I never thought I'd make:

Choose your animal!

I was talking to this girl this afternoon, and she told me she looked at every guy and compared him to an animal. Some guys look like dogs, some guys look like cats, some look like rats. Basically, most guys can be categorized as some kind of animal, just like women can. The interesting thing is, that attraction is also based in part on this.

Women that look like a cat, a leopard or anything else catlike are usually found to be attractive. Some girls look like little puppies, which can also be very cute. There's more animals that people can look like.

However, my tip is: Choose your animal. You probably already look like a certain type of animal, without even realizing it. Enhance that appearance (in a human-like way). Tips on my side are the following:
  • The lion,
  • the tiger,
  • the bull,
  • the leopard.
But I believe some of you can think of others, which suit you better, as well.

Personally, I look like a lion. Everybody in my family looks like a lion. I have long dark-blonde hair, a little goatee, etc. I actually do resemble a lion quite a bit, and the more I pronounce that, the more women are attracted to me (without any effort on my side). Oh yeah, that, and I work out ;).
I actually notice I've started to behave more like a lion as well. I used to be very outgoing and talk to everybody I knew. Now I'm usually a little more reserved, powerful, but striking when the time is right. The women are actually doing all the work for me as well, just like lionesses ;).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Vypros

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lol

Again with the looks.

When are you guys going to learn that looks don't matter in this game?
 

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Vypros said:
lol

Again with the looks.

When are you guys going to learn that looks don't matter in this game?
Good looks are not a prerequisite for attraction or game but looks do help. I'm curious what I look like... tell me what I look like for shyts and giggles.
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AZHSN8S&key=GYF
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Vypros said:
lol

Again with the looks.

When are you guys going to learn that looks don't matter in this game?
I-am-someone said:
Here's a tip I never thought I'd make
I normally don't do posts like this (about looks), but it's actually not just about looks. It's also about your game and personality.

By the way, looks do matter. The whole package matters; if you've got great game but sh¡tty looks your results will suffer, if you've got good looks but sh¡tty game you will get no results.

Good looks are not a prerequisite for attraction or game but looks do help. I'm curious what I look like... tell me what I look like for shyts and giggles.
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=AZHSN8S&key=GYF
I believe you mostly resemble a tiger or another cat-like animal. Good point to start from.
 

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I'm disappointed because I know I don't look like a falcon :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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great tip. i'm serious.

the truth is, looks do matter. BUT!! it all depends on what the girl finds attractive, you might be dressed nice and preppy, but the girl hates that style, so even though you look good, it hinders you. Thus, the best advice is to wear and dress how you want and spend the time you would've spent getting the perfect look down on improving your personality.
 

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Looks do matter, since they (often) make the first impression on a person, but beauty is only one part of the presentation. Style, neatness, cleanliness, attitude and demeanor, posture: all these and more combine to give you your final appearance. Also, when they combine they complement each other, so the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. So by striving to look and act like a lion, or a wolf, or a naked molerat, you become more congruent and (in the mind's eye) more pleasing.
 

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WisdomofaMadman said:
Looks do matter,
For the purposes of THIS site and what you are trying to learn here, NO THEY DON'T.

Anybody with a couple hundred bucks can fix their looks. A good shave, a good haircut, and some stylish clothes and voila! Your looks are fixed.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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But Bjerte doesn't have an animal.
Dr Beard is Pigeons. All Pigeons idolize Dr Beard, for Dr Beard is a man! Who else do you know can take ball flicking, pigeon fighting and still get the girl in the end?
 

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I wanna be a Bonobo ))))))
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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