"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Choices...Read this!!

Walking Anomaly

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Hey all, Hows life treating yas?
~great!

im looking for some feedback...

After a week of not seeing my girl of 1 yr (we go to different schools, meet on weekends when she comes home to my place), i decided yesterday to tell her i was headin up there for a day this weekend (she has to stay up there this weekend, so if i dont go she wont get to see me for 2 weeks total, and she always begs me to go up there).

However, i find out today that my closest bud wants me to come up to his school for the weekend to party it up...ya'll know what i mean:cool:

So now im racking my brain!

See my girl for the weekend and make her happy...get some, chill :up:
OR
See my boy for the weekend and have a good time, laughin shyt up, go out bar hoppin... :up: ;)

I know its my choice in the end so some will say, "you gotta decide what you want more...but let me tell ya....It's a tough one!

Let me know what ya's think
Much appreciated
Peace
~WA
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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frisco

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If its a girl you have in the bag and can get some anytime then chill with your boy. just my opinion
 

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It's only two weeks, It's not like you're going to Afghanistan or Iraq like i did. Chill with your boy and let loose.
 
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