"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Choices...Read this!!

Walking Anomaly

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Hey all, Hows life treating yas?
~great!

im looking for some feedback...

After a week of not seeing my girl of 1 yr (we go to different schools, meet on weekends when she comes home to my place), i decided yesterday to tell her i was headin up there for a day this weekend (she has to stay up there this weekend, so if i dont go she wont get to see me for 2 weeks total, and she always begs me to go up there).

However, i find out today that my closest bud wants me to come up to his school for the weekend to party it up...ya'll know what i mean:cool:

So now im racking my brain!

See my girl for the weekend and make her happy...get some, chill :up:
OR
See my boy for the weekend and have a good time, laughin shyt up, go out bar hoppin... :up: ;)

I know its my choice in the end so some will say, "you gotta decide what you want more...but let me tell ya....It's a tough one!

Let me know what ya's think
Much appreciated
Peace
~WA
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frisco

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If its a girl you have in the bag and can get some anytime then chill with your boy. just my opinion
 

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It's only two weeks, It's not like you're going to Afghanistan or Iraq like i did. Chill with your boy and let loose.
 
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