"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Choice of GUARANTEE FOR Valentines?

HeyPachuco!

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K,

OPTION 1 - Well I can either see one of my dates this FRIDAY 02.12.10 AND on Valentines Day, she seems like she won't flake but I can't guarantee that, so I've got 2 other options. She is more than happy to travel upto me, and she suggested coming.

OPTION 2 - See one of my targets whose travellling down from far with her 4 Wild girlfriends and get totally smashed with them and my friends ,isolate her and hopefully ONS (since we've been speaking for so long), its a penthouse they're going to be staying in.

OR

OPTION 3 - See another date who is coming down from far ALSO, and its a guranteed LAY. Thing is, the FIRST (OPTION 1) girl is someone I closed recently and want to see if I have learnt anything from here since joining last year.

Options 2 is a 50/50% chance SNL and Option 3 is a guaranteed SNL.

Wise thing to do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If I understand correctly, it's a bad idea to take a girl you've just met out on valentines. That position is reserved for GFs, otherwise it's too intimate and needy.

I'd say go get smashed with the girl and her friends, maybe you'll get a 5-some ;)
 

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THREE THREE THREE!

Sorry, that must just be my wild party animal side coming out again :)
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
K,

OPTION 1 - Well I can either see one of my dates this FRIDAY 02.12.10 AND on Valentines Day, she seems like she won't flake but I can't guarantee that, so I've got 2 other options. She is more than happy to travel upto me, and she suggested coming.

OPTION 2 - See one of my targets whose travellling down from far with her 4 Wild girlfriends and get totally smashed with them and my friends ,isolate her and hopefully ONS (since we've been speaking for so long), its a penthouse they're going to be staying in.

OR

OPTION 3 - See another date who is coming down from far ALSO, and its a guranteed LAY. Thing is, the FIRST (OPTION 1) girl is someone I closed recently and want to see if I have learnt anything from here since joining last year.

Options 2 is a 50/50% chance SNL and Option 3 is a guaranteed SNL.

Wise thing to do?
Go with 1 and 3. Question: How long is option 2 available and which nights are they available? I only ask because if you REALLY played this right, you could maybe have all three options. It'd be a jammed packed weekend but it would be fun.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Option 2 girl will be in the city from 02.12.10 till the 02.15.10. She texted me asking if I was busy this V-day Weekend and that I should come and have a drink with here and her girlfriends, I haven't replied back yet, but I need to let her know because there Penthouse won't be open all night for guys to just come thru anytime.

Option 3. I'm not thinking about IF I'm going to these actual date, I'm just thinking about how I'm going to lose her, she wants an LTR, I just want the SNL. I'll think of something. :)
 

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Option 2
 

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Damn it, thought she would flake

FVCK!!!

Option 1 is hellbent on coming up to see me in about approx. 1 HOUR, man, I didn't even feel like seeing anyone today, I haven't prepared anything. Theres like left over Pizza from yesterday. I have no clue on what we should do, it would've been better to see her tommorow since my parents our going away for there anniversary for 2nights.

Guess I'm just going to have to slug it out. She said she was going to be in the area helping her friend with some homework, but she couldn't be bothered, so instead she told me she will be making her way up to me in an hour after dropping her little sister home.

Get WASTED - Dvd - then LAY? Mom's in, and she will be up and down the house packing her stuff. I'm just in one of those "My time" moods. Like walking around the house naked with nobody there moods, fvck it. Stay tuned for the report in my field reports thread on this one.
 
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