Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Choice of GUARANTEE FOR Valentines?

HeyPachuco!

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K,

OPTION 1 - Well I can either see one of my dates this FRIDAY 02.12.10 AND on Valentines Day, she seems like she won't flake but I can't guarantee that, so I've got 2 other options. She is more than happy to travel upto me, and she suggested coming.

OPTION 2 - See one of my targets whose travellling down from far with her 4 Wild girlfriends and get totally smashed with them and my friends ,isolate her and hopefully ONS (since we've been speaking for so long), its a penthouse they're going to be staying in.

OR

OPTION 3 - See another date who is coming down from far ALSO, and its a guranteed LAY. Thing is, the FIRST (OPTION 1) girl is someone I closed recently and want to see if I have learnt anything from here since joining last year.

Options 2 is a 50/50% chance SNL and Option 3 is a guaranteed SNL.

Wise thing to do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If I understand correctly, it's a bad idea to take a girl you've just met out on valentines. That position is reserved for GFs, otherwise it's too intimate and needy.

I'd say go get smashed with the girl and her friends, maybe you'll get a 5-some ;)
 

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THREE THREE THREE!

Sorry, that must just be my wild party animal side coming out again :)
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
K,

OPTION 1 - Well I can either see one of my dates this FRIDAY 02.12.10 AND on Valentines Day, she seems like she won't flake but I can't guarantee that, so I've got 2 other options. She is more than happy to travel upto me, and she suggested coming.

OPTION 2 - See one of my targets whose travellling down from far with her 4 Wild girlfriends and get totally smashed with them and my friends ,isolate her and hopefully ONS (since we've been speaking for so long), its a penthouse they're going to be staying in.

OR

OPTION 3 - See another date who is coming down from far ALSO, and its a guranteed LAY. Thing is, the FIRST (OPTION 1) girl is someone I closed recently and want to see if I have learnt anything from here since joining last year.

Options 2 is a 50/50% chance SNL and Option 3 is a guaranteed SNL.

Wise thing to do?
Go with 1 and 3. Question: How long is option 2 available and which nights are they available? I only ask because if you REALLY played this right, you could maybe have all three options. It'd be a jammed packed weekend but it would be fun.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Option 2 girl will be in the city from 02.12.10 till the 02.15.10. She texted me asking if I was busy this V-day Weekend and that I should come and have a drink with here and her girlfriends, I haven't replied back yet, but I need to let her know because there Penthouse won't be open all night for guys to just come thru anytime.

Option 3. I'm not thinking about IF I'm going to these actual date, I'm just thinking about how I'm going to lose her, she wants an LTR, I just want the SNL. I'll think of something. :)
 

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Option 2
 

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Damn it, thought she would flake

FVCK!!!

Option 1 is hellbent on coming up to see me in about approx. 1 HOUR, man, I didn't even feel like seeing anyone today, I haven't prepared anything. Theres like left over Pizza from yesterday. I have no clue on what we should do, it would've been better to see her tommorow since my parents our going away for there anniversary for 2nights.

Guess I'm just going to have to slug it out. She said she was going to be in the area helping her friend with some homework, but she couldn't be bothered, so instead she told me she will be making her way up to me in an hour after dropping her little sister home.

Get WASTED - Dvd - then LAY? Mom's in, and she will be up and down the house packing her stuff. I'm just in one of those "My time" moods. Like walking around the house naked with nobody there moods, fvck it. Stay tuned for the report in my field reports thread on this one.
 
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