"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrRuckus

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Being_the_Don said:
When you're doing them with palms facing you that's a pullup. Progression is harder on chin ups but if you practice both of them your numbers will increase.
Palms out is a pullup.




Can one even do an explosive pullup if one can only do 6?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mad Manic said:
Naaah, it's 5' 7 1/2" , still short though since average is 5' 10".
lol, oh well~ i'll get surgery done to increade my height if it makes u hsppy, lol.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
I see, when you said explosive pull ups, I thought you literally meant explosive pull ups.

you mean Slow coming down (abduction) and Fast coming up (adduction).
As fast as you can coming up, using the upper body only. Look into 43 seconds of this clip to see what I mean. http://youtube.com/watch?v=RREGFOZoZTk

Be controlled when going down. Don't free fall going down, but don't go slower than you have to. Maybe going slow will help with hypertrophy, I think going very slow on negatives is a trick a lot of bodybuilders use. I haven't heard of this trick on the applications of strength though.

mrRuckus said:
Can one even do an explosive pullup if one can only do 6?
I think so. Even when I do 70lbs of weight (where I can only do 6-7 reps), I feel that I have to explode from the bottom. As if I am trying to prevent acceleration as much as I can by going at my max speed from the start. But, some acceleration does occur, esp near the top.
 

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Being_the_Don said:
How many sets do you normally do?
I do pullups on my chest/back day.

usually 3 sets.

- get 15-20 on set 1
- only 10-12 on set 2 and 3 because of fatigue.

Sometimes I'll add a weight, but haven't done this in a while.
 
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