"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chimps, Gorillas, Baboons and Gibbons

Being_the_Don

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Why is it that other primates are stronger than humans? Even the best Olympic weight lifter wouldn't be in the same class as gorillas, chimps, etc. They spend most of their waking hours foraging, swinging from trees or chasing each other yet they are stronger than humans. Does anyone have a theory as to why there are such noticeable differences between human and animal strength classes? Oh, and most of them are obligatory vegetarians, too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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brawn vs brains. we use our brains to make our lives easier so we don't have to swing from tree to tree. but yes primates and even 'cavemen' have/had higher muscle densities
 

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They spend their whole lives doing pull ups, we do them once a week.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
They spend their whole lives doing pull ups, we do them once a week.

Yeah, but it would seem that pullups alone wouldn't be enough. Genetics surely plays a role in all of it, lower primates add muscle mass faster than humans. Still, it makes me wonder why they are stronger when they don't perform the various exercises most humans do.
 

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It's just the way they're built. Ants can carry objects 20x their weight (or something along those lines); we sure as hell can't. You ever see an ant doing squats or deadlifts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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int3l

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Master Bates is right. i mean we don't have 6 legs and crap to go around supporting the weight.
 

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They are stronger because they need to be. If they came out of the trees, they would lose muscle mass in evolution too. Nature is a very lazy, conservative, and efficient thing. Use it or lose it.
 

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as blueyes says, genetic code builds cells in a certain way. nature will only allocate as many resources (in growth, energy, metabolism etc) to an area (strength, speed, brainpower, flexibility etc) as is strictly necessary for the survival and proliferation of an organism. so, we are limited and defined by our genes. it's not that apes train more, it's that their cells are designed to take more load in certain areas at the expense of others (i.e. a baby chimp will learn to climb immediately but will stop mental development at the level of a 3 year old human, while a human baby will not be able to walk let alone climb for 3 years but will then master the most complex communication tool in known existence - human speech).
 

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int3l said:
Master Bates is right. i mean we don't have 6 legs and crap to go around supporting the weight.

Humans have more in comon with chimps and gorillas than ants. When was the last time you saw a six legged chimp?
 
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