"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chimps, Gorillas, Baboons and Gibbons

Being_the_Don

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Why is it that other primates are stronger than humans? Even the best Olympic weight lifter wouldn't be in the same class as gorillas, chimps, etc. They spend most of their waking hours foraging, swinging from trees or chasing each other yet they are stronger than humans. Does anyone have a theory as to why there are such noticeable differences between human and animal strength classes? Oh, and most of them are obligatory vegetarians, too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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brawn vs brains. we use our brains to make our lives easier so we don't have to swing from tree to tree. but yes primates and even 'cavemen' have/had higher muscle densities
 

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They spend their whole lives doing pull ups, we do them once a week.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
They spend their whole lives doing pull ups, we do them once a week.

Yeah, but it would seem that pullups alone wouldn't be enough. Genetics surely plays a role in all of it, lower primates add muscle mass faster than humans. Still, it makes me wonder why they are stronger when they don't perform the various exercises most humans do.
 

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It's just the way they're built. Ants can carry objects 20x their weight (or something along those lines); we sure as hell can't. You ever see an ant doing squats or deadlifts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Master Bates is right. i mean we don't have 6 legs and crap to go around supporting the weight.
 

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They are stronger because they need to be. If they came out of the trees, they would lose muscle mass in evolution too. Nature is a very lazy, conservative, and efficient thing. Use it or lose it.
 

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as blueyes says, genetic code builds cells in a certain way. nature will only allocate as many resources (in growth, energy, metabolism etc) to an area (strength, speed, brainpower, flexibility etc) as is strictly necessary for the survival and proliferation of an organism. so, we are limited and defined by our genes. it's not that apes train more, it's that their cells are designed to take more load in certain areas at the expense of others (i.e. a baby chimp will learn to climb immediately but will stop mental development at the level of a 3 year old human, while a human baby will not be able to walk let alone climb for 3 years but will then master the most complex communication tool in known existence - human speech).
 

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int3l said:
Master Bates is right. i mean we don't have 6 legs and crap to go around supporting the weight.

Humans have more in comon with chimps and gorillas than ants. When was the last time you saw a six legged chimp?
 
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