"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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childish girly game,but I want to play

toasttopper1879

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This is quite a childish thing to do but I think it'll be fun and a little bit of light hearted entertainment for yours truly while I wait for the bath to run or something.
Right,just recently I've split for a girl I've been seeing just casually.She seemed to be needing that dram buzz some girls need and she dropped a remark like "maybe we should'nt carry on cos my friends say this blah blah". So I just said fine and cut her dead.No more contact, and I'm gone like a rat up a gutter.
Nothing,then a few days later I get a mystery e mail.Thats followed by a message on that msn messenger and after all of 2 minutes I suss out who it is,however she's pretending to be a complete stranger.I dare say yous can all guess the opening bout of questions I was asked but I ducked every one.
Now I know its childish,but I do want to play.I'm not sure what I want from this girl just yet,but I would like your thoughts on what to say n how to handle when the inevitable messages start again.I dont want to call her on it straight away and I've no intention of embarasing or degrading her by telling her friends and collegues.All humorous replies would be gratefully accepted.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Boner da Stoner

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Why you are asking these questions might be the same as asking a kindergartner to play catch, I know the difference though!

"let's meet for coffee(tea, a walk, movie your treat, games, etc...) tomorrow"
 

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^bro.. you are weird...


but yeah i know what you mean man, i wouldn't call her on it either. juz play along, no harm in that. i think she's just obsessed with you, take it as a good sign hahah
 
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