"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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While I was growing up, one of my parents' friends had a daughter my age who was around pretty often and was mad obsessed with me from like age 5 to 16.

Decent looking girl, but frankly she annoyed the hell out of me. Other than a bj and a small make out session one time, I never humored her sexual advances, despite the fact that I could have (regret).

Now she works at a bar in town and we're still on friendly terms, but she gave up after about 16 as far as I could tell. She has a boyfriend of a few years but she took a friend of mine home with her a year or so ago. He's a chump though and she wouldn't do anything more than "cuddle" with him. But I know from the fact that she took him home with her that she would do it.

Also it's worth mentioning that she is somewhat on the crazy side. To this day, she swears that she and I dated for a couple years when we were like fourteen. I do not know why, we never dated. We never hung out when our parents weren't around, ever.

How could I go about trying to get things going with this girl again?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kintsugi said:
Go for a drink in her bar.
Clearly lol I was in there last night with a few friends. Didn't talk to her much other than get a drink

Since she works there though, I need to get her away from there and alone.
 

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"Hey HB being a bar tender here and all you should know a little bit about your competition. Give me your number and I will take you to my bar, XYZ bar, sometime. I won't blow your cover so long as you behave and don't emberass me".
 

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Why don't you just find another girl? Get some abundance in your life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mangotot said:
Why don't you just find another girl? Get some abundance in your life.
Abundance is good, but it has to start somewhere.

I agree though, sounds like he's never really had any interest in this girl, why go after her now? Is it because she has a boyfriend now and perceives that she might be slipping away? Regret for not hitting it when he had the opportunity?
 

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feh serious the only reason he want her now is because she is not into him anymore and his ego is feeling hurt,

please ignore the crazy chick and find other woman not hard
 
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