"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Childhood friend

thepbf

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Hi, I'm new to this forum but I've been reading the Book of Pook and other posts for a while now.

I'd like to know what are your views on hooking up with a childhood friend?

Why am I asking this?
Well, I've been friends with this girl since i'm like 10 years old, but I hadn't seen her since she finished high school and last week I saw her, talked for a while and got her number. I've realized that I'm interested in her and I'd like to know how to proceed with this.

Also, since I'm new to the forum I don't know if this is the right place to ask this question, sorry.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Greasy Pig

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Just fvcking do it! You're both adults now and adults don't play hide n seek, they play hide the sausage.
You have the advantage of already having rapport, just take her for a drink or just invite her over to "catch up on old times", escalate and penetrate.
What have you got to lose?
 

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Greasy Pig said:
Just fvcking do it! You're both adults now and adults don't play hide n seek, they play hide the sausage.
You have the advantage of already having rapport, just take her for a drink or just invite her over to "catch up on old times", escalate and penetrate.
What have you got to lose?
Yeah you're fvcking right, I'm doing it.

Also to keep this thread kinda alive does anyone have similar stories?
 

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thepbf said:
Yeah you're fvcking right, I'm doing it.

Also to keep this thread kinda alive does anyone have similar stories?
During my divorce I moved back home to my grandparents. One day I saw a girl walking down the street. Realized I used to play with her when we were kids. I was a few years older than her and she always followed me around like a puppy. Mentioned her to my uncle and he told me she used to run around with him and some friends.

I snagged her number from him called and asked her if she would like to go dancing with me so that we could catch up.

Picked her up took her out. We were making out with in 15 mins. Got a bj most of the way home. Slept with her a few times.

She got clingy fast. Guess she wanted me since she was 12. Started walking up and down the street to see if I was home. Wanted me to stay over every night. Ended up telling her I was only ready to be friends.
 
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