"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Childhood friend

thepbf

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Hi, I'm new to this forum but I've been reading the Book of Pook and other posts for a while now.

I'd like to know what are your views on hooking up with a childhood friend?

Why am I asking this?
Well, I've been friends with this girl since i'm like 10 years old, but I hadn't seen her since she finished high school and last week I saw her, talked for a while and got her number. I've realized that I'm interested in her and I'd like to know how to proceed with this.

Also, since I'm new to the forum I don't know if this is the right place to ask this question, sorry.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Greasy Pig

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Just fvcking do it! You're both adults now and adults don't play hide n seek, they play hide the sausage.
You have the advantage of already having rapport, just take her for a drink or just invite her over to "catch up on old times", escalate and penetrate.
What have you got to lose?
 

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Greasy Pig said:
Just fvcking do it! You're both adults now and adults don't play hide n seek, they play hide the sausage.
You have the advantage of already having rapport, just take her for a drink or just invite her over to "catch up on old times", escalate and penetrate.
What have you got to lose?
Yeah you're fvcking right, I'm doing it.

Also to keep this thread kinda alive does anyone have similar stories?
 

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thepbf said:
Yeah you're fvcking right, I'm doing it.

Also to keep this thread kinda alive does anyone have similar stories?
During my divorce I moved back home to my grandparents. One day I saw a girl walking down the street. Realized I used to play with her when we were kids. I was a few years older than her and she always followed me around like a puppy. Mentioned her to my uncle and he told me she used to run around with him and some friends.

I snagged her number from him called and asked her if she would like to go dancing with me so that we could catch up.

Picked her up took her out. We were making out with in 15 mins. Got a bj most of the way home. Slept with her a few times.

She got clingy fast. Guess she wanted me since she was 12. Started walking up and down the street to see if I was home. Wanted me to stay over every night. Ended up telling her I was only ready to be friends.
 
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