Childhood friend has went down hill, opinions please.

[spiegel549]

I moved from NY to LA about 5 years ago. I love the weather, love my job, women out here are CRAZY but I enjoy my random bangs and nights out.

I have a childhood friend that distanced himself from our main group of friends back east and dropped off the planet for 3 years. Recently he contacted me saying he is moving to LA! (it seemed like he straightened out so I gave him another shot)

He has been out here 4 months and living with me until he gets his own place. He pumped me up about how he wants to live the single life, bang as many girls as he can, and party it up! Hell we are both 27 and single what else should we be doing lol.

Long story short he has become a nightmare with women. He already had 2 girlfriends off of POF........which one was a fat 5....and the other was a CRAZY asian 4....

Nothing I say gets through to him. We go out to bars, he wants to leave. I want to game girls, he isn't in the mood. I do GREAT by myself and my other boys so I don't need him around.

He has been a long time childhood friend but I am at the breaking point of kicking him out and just losing his number.

What do you guys think? He clearly tells me he wants to settle and have kids soon which is fine, but why the fuk would you tell me you want to do the single life and party it up and then every time we go out, rather then game hot women in the bar with me, he sits in the corner on his phone texting TRASH POF girl's lol...its nuts...I end up gaming women by myself and I do just fine with out him.

The whole point of my post is it's hard to "next" a friend you have known since 7 years old...but he just isn't the fun single guy I knew back east...

Opinions? Thanks!

 

[Jair213]

well bro. he's not watt he says he is if he is a good friend to you and you guys get along and known him since you guys were small, cool but just cuz off that your dumping out a good buddy? he clearly doesnt have game like you do or has the same views.. he's a chump beta that wont let anything get through his skull.. i had a similar situation felt like unfriending a good friend of mined due to similar situations like this. glad i didnt cuz other than him being a fvcken beta and sucked with woman he was still a good friend that i had a great time with... dont know man its your call

 

[LIKEaBAWZ]

intervention!
But seriously try to make him understand that he can be a catch, it will prolly take a while to let it sink through.

 

[D Wolfgang]

That is tough, spiegel. He lives at your place, so you are in a sticky situation. Telling a friend that he has to move out is not a fun thing to do. Some in this situation wait it out, and eventually the friend moves out. But it can take a long time.

Perhaps you can look for available apartments online, and point them out to him, hope he gets the point. That would be a discreet way to begin.


Oh, sorry: I should just say "Tell him that he's the prize! Soon he'll be scoring HBs in no time!" etc etc, like the people who have no lives and are just roleplaying. The "advice" you see here is ridiculous sometimes.

(Not to nitpick, but "has gone" downhill.)

How are the chicks crazy in Los Angeles? I am curious. They shouldn't be genetically different from the people in New York, but I suppose the environment could effect them somehow. Los Angeles does seem to have some unusual conditions; it is not a place where I would like to live in the U.S., simply based on what people say and what you read.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

^
This, is LA really that bad? I would much rather live there than Tn right now.

 

[Jair213]

That is tough, spiegel. He lives at your place, so you are in a sticky situation. Telling a friend that he has to move out is not a fun thing to do. Some in this situation wait it out, and eventually the friend moves out. But it can take a long time.

Perhaps you can look for available apartments online, and point them out to him, hope he gets the point. That would be a discreet way to begin.


Oh, sorry: I should just say "Tell him that he's the prize! Soon he'll be scoring HBs in no time!" etc etc, like the people who have no lives and are just roleplaying. The "advice" you see here is ridiculous sometimes.

(Not to nitpick, but "has gone" downhill.)

How are the chicks crazy in Los Angeles? I am curious. They shouldn't be genetically different from the people in New York, but I suppose the environment could effect them somehow. Los Angeles does seem to have some unusual conditions; it is not a place where I would like to live in the U.S., simply based on what people say and what you read.

l.a has the craziest slvts lol