"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chicks with prejudice?

oneboy21

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I came across a weird situation yesterday
I was talking with a girl on okcupid .com and we had a normal coversation
she was new to the city just like me, and she was bored at home as i am,
so after a 30 minute talk i suggested we should get together.
when i said that she just disappeared, she went silent and didn't talk to me.
the next day(Sunday), she im's me and says sorry about yesterday.
i told her it was rude for her to ignore me like that, she tells me she felt awkward talking to me because i was Indian. she tells me its her first time talking to some one like me. i forgived her and suggested we should meet. she told me she would let me know.
i asked her number, for which she gave me.

how do you guys deal with a situation like this
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Iceberg

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You got all emotional and called her rude for ending an internet conversation?

You gotta loosen up, man. You dont even know this broad.

Secondly, if she has prejudice what can you do about it? It's not your job to make her into a decent, accepting human being.

If she agrees to meet you, then obviously you should continue to do whatever has been successful for you. If not, then f**k it.
 

oneboy21

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i called her rude the next day when she imed me
so true, i am not going to tolerate it dude.
 

Iceberg

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oneboy21 said:
i called her rude the next day when she imed me
so true, i am not going to tolerate it dude.
Tolerate what? Some girl you don't know ending a conversation with you?

You think she owes you a "Good night. Sweet dreams?" If some chick got mad at me for something like that, I'd tell her to f**k herself. If I've never even met her, I don't owe her sh*t.

Maybe I'm just numb to this stuff, but...who cares?

I'm just saying, you're not going to get far with this whole "dating" lifestyle if you're emotional about small things like this.
 

pdx1138

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Women do this all the time with online dating.

Get used to "rude women."
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jaylan

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Im with OP. A girl abruptly ending a convo because of my ethnicity is a huge red flag.
 
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