"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chicks who never initiate texts but..

djjizzyjeff

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Chicks who never inititate texts but tell you in person to text them when you haven't..

Simply attention seeking? or Chicks pretty much don't text first regardless but expect you to text them first?

No big deal. Just wondering the boards opinion as I've gotten several chicks who've told me to text them previously, which I've done quick back and forths, yet they never seem to initiate other than to tell me to text them when I see them in person being I havent seen them or texted them in a while.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is no such thing as girls "Never" initiate, it just depends on how much you impressed her and how much she likes you, I know I rarely text other than to set plans but I often receive texts when I disappear for how much time she thinks it's too much without hearing me
It's up to you to do the first move and text her, because she expect it, but it's not that you must to
Silence is golden
 

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I rarely initiate texts and if I get with a chick who does the same thing we just won't be texting.
 

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thats total BS. really hot Chicks have 50 guys a day texting them, the only guy that they ever text first....is the one there ****ing or in a relationship with.
I repeat hot chicks will NOT TEXT YOU FIRST 99% of the time unless they really really want you..... even if they do.... chicks admit to me later on all they could think about was why I wasn't texting them:)
 

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JoeMarron said:
I rarely initiate texts and if I get with a chick who does the same thing we just won't be texting.
IME the more you text a chick wasting time with small talk the less attractive you become to her....the only time you should text her is to meet up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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