"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chicks who never initiate texts but..

djjizzyjeff

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Chicks who never inititate texts but tell you in person to text them when you haven't..

Simply attention seeking? or Chicks pretty much don't text first regardless but expect you to text them first?

No big deal. Just wondering the boards opinion as I've gotten several chicks who've told me to text them previously, which I've done quick back and forths, yet they never seem to initiate other than to tell me to text them when I see them in person being I havent seen them or texted them in a while.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Velor

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There is no such thing as girls "Never" initiate, it just depends on how much you impressed her and how much she likes you, I know I rarely text other than to set plans but I often receive texts when I disappear for how much time she thinks it's too much without hearing me
It's up to you to do the first move and text her, because she expect it, but it's not that you must to
Silence is golden
 

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I rarely initiate texts and if I get with a chick who does the same thing we just won't be texting.
 

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thats total BS. really hot Chicks have 50 guys a day texting them, the only guy that they ever text first....is the one there ****ing or in a relationship with.
I repeat hot chicks will NOT TEXT YOU FIRST 99% of the time unless they really really want you..... even if they do.... chicks admit to me later on all they could think about was why I wasn't texting them:)
 

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JoeMarron said:
I rarely initiate texts and if I get with a chick who does the same thing we just won't be texting.
IME the more you text a chick wasting time with small talk the less attractive you become to her....the only time you should text her is to meet up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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